Assess Your Defensiveness Level

In life, some people openly embrace others' enthusiasm and return it, while others are filled with suspicion, believing that others have hidden motives. While this can protect oneself, it also creates many challenges in building relationships. A person's character is deeply influenced by their environment, mindset, and inherent destiny chart. Today, Teacher Fanxin will lead you through a psychological test to determine how strong your defensive mindset is.

Test Method: Please answer the following questions in sequence and sum up your scores. Refer to the test results based on your total score. (Choosing A is 1 point, B is 2 points, and C is 3 points.)

1. During an outdoor adventure, your teammates disappear one by one, leaving you with a team member you don't get along with. What will you do?

A: Feel very scared, think that the teammates have met with misfortune, and discuss strategies with the team member you don't get along with.

B: Feel extremely fearful, worried that you might also meet the same fate.

C: Suspect that the team member you don't get along with is to blame and secretly investigate them.

2. In a dream, your beloved ex is staying in the same hotel as a boss who often criticizes you. What is your first reaction?

A: Your ex still loves you; they work with the boss.

B: Your ex and the boss might be relatives; they are simply resting together.

C: You feel that your ex's unethical behavior continues to affect you.

3. You are participating in a maze game. What type of surroundings do you hope for around the maze?

A: A well-lit area, with lots of wildflowers surrounding the maze.

B: A river on one side and a big tree on the other, with a guide to solving the maze hanging from the tree.

C: A dark and drizzly sky with tall reeds around the maze, making it hard to see the way through.

4. You are in a war, seriously injured, and carrying important confidential documents. You are about to send a distress signal when you encounter a dazed beggar. What will you do?

A: Quickly grab the beggar, believing they can assist you.

B: Hand the important documents to the beggar.

C: Suspect that the beggar is an undercover agent and quickly hide the documents.

5. At a party, someone of the opposite sex who previously rejected you actively invites you to dance. What do you think?

A: You believe that your charm attracted them, and you'll share this with your good friends.

B: You think the person might have broken up and plan to ask about it after dancing.

C: You believe they have an ulterior motive and will be particularly cautious when talking to them.

6. One day, your seriously ill grandfather hands you a box covered in copper rust without saying anything and then passes away. What is your reaction?

A: The box holds your grandfather's precious keepsakes.

B: The box contains your grandfather's entire inheritance.

C: The box contains a secret of your grandfather’s, potentially related to your own background.

7. In a dream, you see your father having an affair with a teacher who treats you like a daughter. Upon waking, what is your reaction?

A: You think you are overthinking and will dismiss the immoral dream.

B: You miss your father and the teacher and plan to reach out to them.

C: You suspect a hidden relationship between your father and the teacher and plan to confront them sarcastically.

8. You accidentally discover that something your friend told you conflicts with what a distant relative said. What is your reaction?

A: Trust your friend and believe the relative is lying.

B: Be skeptical of the relative's words and will verify with your friend.

C: Suspect your friend might be deceiving you and hold a grudge against them.

9. Which of the following situations is closest to your daily habits?

A: No decorations by the bed, a glass of water on the bedside table, and the door directly facing the bed.

B: A phone charger and perfume next to the bed, with the foot of the bed facing the wardrobe, and a cartoon doll on the dressing table.

C: Must wear an eye mask to sleep, keep the door closed, and cannot sleep in the same bed with someone of the same sex, waking up immediately at any sound while sleeping.

10. In a hazy sleep, a friend who often jokes with you shouts "Earthquake!" in your ear. What is your reaction?

A: Quickly get up and prepare to escape.

B: Immediately ask them about the earthquake situation.

C: Quickly get up and verify whether the situation is true.

11. You are on vacation in a "ghost village" with a friend. One day, your friend says they saw a woman in red at night. What is your reaction?

A: Shorten the vacation and leave quickly.

B: Seriously ask your friend to describe their frightening encounter.

C: Assume your friend is joking and plan to scare them by pretending to be a ghost.

12. Your friend dies in an accident. Their partner tells you the deceased appeared in a dream asking for 2000 yuan for the funeral. What is your reaction?

A: Believe that the deceased has appeared and willingly give 2000 yuan to the partner.

B: Think the partner is overthinking but still give 2000 yuan to comfort them.

C: Believe the partner is exploiting the situation for money and only give 500 yuan.

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