What Do Others Think of You?

In life, we often express frustration that others fail to understand us. Even when we try to assist others with good intentions, we frequently encounter skepticism. This is closely tied to the roles we play in the perceptions of others. In studying spiritual magnetism, we refer to others' perceptions of you as "thought transfer," which is influenced by your aura, magnetic field, intentions, and behavior. Today, Teacher Fanxin will integrate metaphysics, spiritual magnetism, and psychology to help everyone develop a better understanding of themselves and offer advice to increase recognition from others in their pursuits.

Testing Method: Please answer the following questions in order and sum your scores. Finally, check the test results based on your total score. (Choosing A is 1 point, B is 2 points, and C is 3 points.)

1. When invited to an elite social circle party, how do you prepare your outfit?

A: I don’t make a special effort to dress up, staying true to myself.

B: I choose an outfit I already own and make some adjustments.

C: I visit a store a few days in advance to select the right outfit and seek friends’ opinions.

2. When a long-lost good friend calls unexpectedly, what’s your first thought?

A: They want to catch up with you.

B: They might be seriously ill and want to see you one last time.

C: They want to borrow money from you.

3. What role do you typically play in your circle of friends?

A: I make decisions based on my friends’ opinions.

B: I am a neutral, silent observer.

C: I have my own views and often influence others with them.

4. At a friend's gathering, if you find something particularly funny, what do you do?

A: I laugh heartily, not worrying about my image, and tease the person involved.

B: I laugh quietly and exchange glances with friends nearby.

C: I instinctively suppress my emotions and smile gracefully.

5. If your close friend suddenly needs money in an emergency, but your funds are tied up in high-growth stocks, what would you do?

A: I’d lie to my friend, saying I lost money in the stock market and can’t help.

B: I’d withdraw some money and lend it to my friend immediately.

C: I’d borrow money from family and friends to help my friend.

6. At a large banquet, upon seeing your first love with your best friend, what's your initial reaction?

A: I silently observe from a distance, reminiscing, feeling a bit unwilling to accept it.

B: I confidently approach them to greet and bless them.

C: I don't deliberately greet them, but send a private message to my friend expressing my blessings.

7. In a dream where you harm your best friend, what's your first reaction upon waking?

A: I feel relieved it was only a dream and gradually calm down.

B: I cry loudly and feel guilty.

C: I remind myself it was just a dream, but I decide to contact my friend less frequently.

8. Discover your family secretly reads your text messages. What do you do?

A: I express my displeasure directly and warn them not to do it again.

B: I calmly express that I prefer fewer people know my private matters.

C: I pretend not to notice and secretly set a password on my phone.

9. If your friend publicly reveals an embarrassing story about you, what's your immediate response?

A: I’d explode in anger and publicly curse them, cutting off contact afterward.

B: I’d retaliate with an embarrassing story about them, making them feel awkward.

C: I’d skillfully defuse the situation and later reassess my view of this friend.

10. Your relative tells you your best friend once stole something. What’s your first reaction?

A: I’d ask my relative for more details and inform other friends.

B: I’d feel sad and message the involved person for specifics.

C: I’d investigate based on my relative’s information.

11. Discovering your perfect partner has had plastic surgery, what’s your first reaction?

A: I’d argue with them and seriously question their integrity.

B: I’d be surprised and ask for pre-surgery photos.

C: I’d suspect their motives and subtly seek further information.

12. A neighbor loses a leg in an accident and often discusses their pain with you. How do you respond?

A: Hearing it repeatedly, I’d listen expressionlessly until they finished.

B: I’d tell them the past is over and not to dwell on it.

C: I’d share stories of friends with worse experiences and encourage them to face it positively.

13. If you dream your partner is cheating, what’s your first reaction upon waking?

A: I’d immediately call my partner and irrationally insult them.

B: I’d feel immense pain, constantly recalling the dream events.

C: I’d secretly check all my partner’s communications.

14. As a pigeon, what would you most desire?

A: To enjoy the freedom of flying and playfully engage with other pigeons.

B: To fly to the person you love most and quietly watch over them.

C: To fly to the person who once slandered you and discreetly investigate your suspicions.

15. In a dream, you're pushed off the 18th floor by a familiar voice. What’s your first thought?

A: I think I’m going to die and recall whose voice it is.

B: I feel pain, thinking about unaccomplished beautiful things.

C: I analyze whose laughter it is and speculate about the perpetrator.

16. If your beloved dog dies in a car accident, what’s your immediate reaction?

A: I’d feel very sad and curse the driver.

B: I’d quietly reminisce about the moments shared with my dog.

C: After brief sadness, I’d consider getting another pet.

17. A relative informs you that you’re not your parents’ biological child. What's your first reaction?

A: I think it’s a joke.

B: I suspect ulterior motives and avoid further communication.

C: I verbally dismiss it as a joke but internally feel conflicted and secretly investigate.

18. Encountering your first love at the airport, what's your first reaction?

A: I assume it’s a mistaken identity and don’t pay much attention.

B: I’d greet them warmly and inquire about their recent experiences.

C: I’d quietly observe and inadvertently recall memories.

19. What types of dreams do you frequently have?

A: Moments from daily life with friends.

B: Traveling back to ancient times.

C: Interacting with deceased relatives in various ways.

20. During the Ghost Festival in July, while watching a supernatural show, a wall painting falls, and the sound system goes silent. Your first reaction is:

A: I’d scream, feeling in danger.

B: I’d feel anxious and call family.

C: I’d analyze why the painting fell and adjust the sound system.