Assess Your Desire for Revenge
How do you manage your personal relationships? Do you tend to get along well with others, or are you more inclined to confront them? Have you ever considered seeking revenge on someone who has wronged you? Today, Teacher Fanxin will use metaphysics, the I Ching, and psychology to offer a test that assesses the strength of your desire for revenge.
1. If your parents or friends suddenly inform you that they accidentally broke your collection worth tens of thousands of dollars, what is your initial reaction?
2. In a dream, you see your neighbor deceased and lying in a coffin. When you visit, they suddenly open their eyes and look at you. Upon waking, what is your first reaction?
3. If a friend suddenly informs you that your partner has committed a crime and killed someone, what is your first reaction?
4. Which of the following scenarios do you think is most likely to occur in the near future?
5. In a dream, you ride a black horse galloping across grasslands, and suddenly, it transforms into a dragon. Upon waking, what is your first reaction?
6. In a dream, you and a friend embark on an adventure abroad and enter a castle, only to find a huge python behind you. Upon waking, what is your first reaction?
7. In a dream, you see a deceased relative waving at you with a lantern. Upon waking, what is your first reaction?
8. If today is your grandmother's birthday and someone tells you that you are not your parents' biological child and that your parents are your father's murderers, how do you react first?
9. In a dream, you hear your partner arguing with your parents, followed by an explosion, and then you see your mother covered in blood. What do you think your immediate reaction would be?
10. If your partner suddenly reveals they lost $200,000 in an investment and hid it from you, how would you react first?
11. In a dream, your mother tells you that someone has been suffering from insomnia and has lost their appetite lately, potentially due to illness. Upon waking, what is your first reaction?
Revenge Index: 5%
Your mindset is relatively uncomplicated; you don't easily hold grudges and treat others with respect. You have a good reputation for being helpful rather than nitpicky. People generally treat you kindly. In the workplace, your generosity is observed by leaders or colleagues, who typically refrain from causing you trouble. You have a gentle nature and don't target others. Even when you feel wronged, you do not hold a grudge. You adjust and move on, never seeking revenge or plotting against others.
Revenge Index: 20%
You are straightforward and prefer transparency in your dealings. You communicate openly and maintain proper etiquette. In your career, you are practical and diligent, paying attention to details, earning appreciation from others. You maintain good relationships. When faced with someone who deliberately makes things difficult for you, you respond directly rather than plotting against them later, as you don't hold grudges.
Revenge Index: 60%
You have a complex and shrewd nature, often keeping your true thoughts to yourself and acting cautiously. You consider the benefits others can provide, which may make them wary of you. Your intelligence can sometimes backfire, making friends cautious around you. You have a strong desire for revenge; you remember grievances and may retaliate at critical moments, sometimes in alarming ways.
Revenge Index: 90%
You tend to be impatient and calculating. In both your career and relationships, you are concerned about being at a disadvantage. If you discover dishonesty from your partner, you actively seek opportunities for revenge and may use inappropriate situations to do so, causing significant distress. Your desire for revenge is intense; you are not someone to cross lightly, as those who do often face consequences. This attitude may lead to exclusion from others.