Assess the Depth of Your Inferiority Complex
Do you frequently question your appearance or abilities in comparison to others and feel disheartened by these thoughts? Do you often feel upset by someone’s unintended comments? Do setbacks frequently arise due to a lack of confidence? Individuals prone to feelings of inferiority may encounter many challenges, even if they have favorable circumstances at birth, because of character flaws. Today, Teacher Fanxin will use metaphysics, I Ching, and psychology to present a test that assesses the depth of your feelings of inferiority.
Test Method: Please answer the following questions and tally your scores. Then, check your results based on the total score. (Option A is worth 1 point, B is 2 points, C is 3 points, and D is 4 points.)
1. If you attend a party with an attractive friend and notice a striking stranger staring in your direction, what is your initial thought?
A: They are probably looking at you.
B: They might be interested in you.
C: They are interested in something nearby.
D: They are looking at your friend.
2. If your boss suddenly asks you to demonstrate a skill in front of everyone and you are unprepared, how would you respond?
A: You would believe you can do well.
B: You would force yourself to perform.
C: You would think your boss is setting you up.
D: You would find various excuses to decline.
3. If you're not very attractive and your friends fail to acknowledge your character, and at a gathering, you notice people pointing at you, what is your first thought?
A: You think it's because they haven't seen you in a long time.
B: You believe you are very charming.
C: You think some of your secrets have been leaked.
D: You would choose to leave because you can't stand the attention.
4. If you're an average performer with excellent interpersonal skills and your boss suddenly promotes you to business supervisor over a highly capable colleague, what is your initial reaction?
A: You would think you deserve it.
B: You would feel surprised and flattered.
C: You would think you can't manage the team well.
D: You would refuse the promotion with various excuses.
5. While visiting relatives in a small village with your family, a stranger approaches and stares at you. What is your initial thought?
A: You would think they like you.
B: You would think they have a secret to share.
C: You would think they might know you.
D: You would think they resent you.
6. If you participate in a singing competition, become an overnight sensation, and then a company invites you to star in a movie with a top celebrity, what is your first reaction?
A: You would accept the task without hesitation.
B: You would think you are about to become a big star.
C: You would doubt your potential success.
D: You would refuse, despite the opportunity.
7. If you win a lottery of 5 million and your bank account suddenly receives 2 million, then your phone rings, what is your initial reaction?
A: You would think you are a lucky person.
B: You would think it's your parents calling.
C: You would wonder if you are dreaming.
D: You would anticipate something bad is about to happen.
8. If, after being a behind-the-scenes singer for 10 years, a record company offers you a contract to step into the limelight, what is your initial response?
A: You would feel very happy and agree immediately.
B: You would think you have finally made it.
C: You would doubt your ability to become popular.
D: You would decline the offer.
9. In a dream, hearing a familiar voice calling your name, you see many corpses ahead. What is your first thought?
A: You think someone is trying to save you.
B: You believe you might be a deity.
C: You think others are harmed because of you.
D: You're convinced you are going to be harmed.
10. Subconsciously, which of the following scenarios do you think is most likely?
A: Becoming an inventor / receiving 10 million from your parents.
B: Becoming a star due to good looks / your partner being an entrepreneur.
C: Getting fired for lack of ability / going to jail for work mistakes.
D: Dying unexpectedly / being sabotaged and achieving nothing.
11. If you find out a trusted colleague has been undermining you, leading to loss in love and career, what is your initial reaction?
A: You would publicly insult them.
B: You would secretly seek revenge.
C: You would think they are morally corrupt.
D: You would blame yourself entirely.
Explore your results based on your score:
Level of Inferiority: 10%
You are extremely confident, ready to both think and act boldly, and you pursue your goals without much regard for others' opinions. Once committed to something, you achieve it with your skills, and even if the process isn't smooth, you push through challenges. In your career, setbacks may arise, and your assertive personality can lead to interpersonal issues, but when faced with doubt or ridicule, you work even harder to gain respect. In both career and love, you are someone to be proud of and never feel inferior.
Advice: Try to moderate your assertive style to earn more respect from others.
Level of Inferiority: 30%
You excel in creating a positive atmosphere, enjoy life, seek order in your work, and are highly responsible. You take tasks seriously and like to approach them in creative ways that may not always be appreciated by others. Your individuality helps you stand out in your career and quickly climb the ranks. In love, you are a kind and thoughtful partner, always attentive to your partner’s needs. However, deep down, you fear being questioned by others, and such doubts can sometimes make you feel inadequate.
Advice: Learn to handle skepticism constructively and face challenges calmly to boost your confidence.
Level of Inferiority: 50%
You have a keen attention to detail, an excellent memory, and prefer thorough preparation. Although skilled, you tend to be stubborn and resist others' viewpoints. This can make you appear inflexible and domineering, often unwilling to compromise. Deep-seated feelings of inferiority may drive you to shield yourself, yet you strive to stand out to gain attention, which can complicate your social relationships.
Advice: Work on managing relationships effectively and accept disappointments to find inner peace.
Level of Inferiority: 80%
You are highly sensitive, often indecisive, and prone to dreaminess. Despite your talents, your innate sensitivity leads to self-doubt and self-imposed challenges. In your career, while capable, you lack social skills and often self-blame when faced with setbacks, resorting to extreme self-punishment. In love, you rarely believe you deserve happiness, fostering insecurities that may affect your partner.
Advice: Embrace self-awareness, do not underestimate yourself, and accept your true self to navigate life's challenges more freely.