Palmistry and Relationships: Unveiling Marriage Secrets Through the Little Finger
There is a love story in Japan about "pinky promises." In a village in Kobe, a young girl visited a fortune teller to learn about her future marriage. The fortune teller told her, "The man who hooks your pinky is your future husband." On her way home, the girl accidentally fell off her bicycle and was helped by a young man with a disability in his right hand, having lost four fingers in an accident. He helped her up and linked his pinky with hers. Astonished, the girl thought, "No way!"
When World War II began, the girl left Kobe and moved to Nagasaki. After the atomic bomb attack on Nagasaki, she injured her left hand, leaving only her pinky intact. After the war ended, she returned to Kobe and saw the young man sitting in front of her house. He extended his pinky to link with hers, and she finally realized that the person meant to accompany her for life was indeed the one who had linked her pinky. From then on, hooking pinkies became a symbol of an unwavering promise of love for a lifetime.
The Impact of Pinky Length on Marriage
In palmistry, the pinky (also known as the little finger) is believed to influence one's fortune after the age of fifty-five. This stage of life is typically considered a period of stability rather than struggle. Having a loyal partner and healthy children is key to family happiness in middle to late life. The length of the pinky can offer insights into the likelihood of happiness in late marriage:
(1) Standard Pinky Length
A normal hand has five fingers: thumb, index finger, middle finger, ring finger, and pinky. Apart from the pinky, each finger has three segments, known as the first segment (though opposite medical terminology), the second segment, and the topmost third segment. The pinky length is measured by reaching the horizontal line of the third segment of the ring finger. Individuals with this pinky length tend to seek stable romantic relationships. In their youth, they may have one or two romantic partners, but due to their mature thoughts and conservative nature, they are unlikely to stray even if pursued after marriage. In old age, most tend to remain with their partners.
(2) Short Pinky Length
If the pinky reaches the second segment of the ring finger, it is considered a short pinky, commonly due to the low starting position of the pinky. The pinky is associated with reproductive functions, and the author, Xiong Shenjin, believes a short pinky may indicate fewer children. In love, if a young person strays and becomes an unmarried parent, they might avoid facing their responsibilities. After marriage, due to lack of energy, couples often feel fatigued, reducing the likelihood of extramarital affairs, likely staying home in their old age, accompanying each other to the end.
(3) Long Pinky Length
If the pinky reaches the third segment of the ring finger, it suggests that the person has strong opinions, wisdom, and management skills, making them popular with the opposite sex. For them, marriage is not something to be managed; constantly monitoring their partner's behavior can be overwhelming. Those with long pinkies may experience difficulties in their first love and often argue over trivial matters after marriage.
How to Remedy Pinky Deficiencies?
The pinky is divided into three segments, with horizontal lines marking the boundaries between them. The author, Xiong Shenjin, suggests comparing the lengths of these segments to analyze our personalities and improve our marital relationships:
Which Segment of the Pinky is the Shortest?
- If the first segment at the base of the finger is the shortest, the person is introverted and has weak communication skills; they should actively communicate with their partner.
- If the middle segment is the shortest, the person is honest but inflexible; they should consider offering their partner gifts on special occasions.
- If the third segment is the shortest, the person is innocent and trusting; they should avoid dating the opposite sex alone after marriage.
Which Segment of the Pinky is the Longest?
- If the first segment at the base of the finger is the longest, it indicates that the person does not like to be constrained by others; they should be given more autonomy after marriage.
- If the middle segment is the longest, the person enjoys caring for their partner and has strong patience, making them less likely to divorce.
- If the third segment is the longest, the person has good relationships with the opposite sex; they should avoid partnering with the opposite sex and especially refrain from traveling alone with them after marriage.
Additionally, individuals with short pinkies may lack assertiveness. They can grow their pinky nails longer to enhance their judgment and compensate for the belief that their pinky cannot reach the third segment, thereby improving their fortune in old age.