Who Deserves More Respect in a Marriage According to Physiognomy?
In fate analysis, it is quite common for a husband to be wealthy while the wife is poor because the husband may receive support from other women. However, when the roles are reversed and the wife is wealthy while the husband is not, the situation becomes more complex. This is because the wife's wealth, aside from her own income, often reflects her husband's financial capabilities. When a woman is prosperous, her husband tends to be strong as well. If the woman is thriving but the man isn't, it's likely that during her rise, she may encounter another marriage or partner.
In reality, many couples with strong relationships part ways after a few years due to economic disparities and differing future plans, often magnified by poor communication. This mismatch in the fortunes of a couple is quite common. For existing marriages, I believe that regardless of gender, the partner with greater prosperity should be respected.
What does this imply? It means that the partner with stronger fortune and greater financial opportunities should be listened to. We must acknowledge that people with favorable fortunes tend to make wise decisions and judgments, while those with unfavorable fortunes often make poor choices at critical moments in their lives. If the wife is more prosperous than the husband, then to stabilize the marriage, the wife should take the lead, and the husband should continuously learn and adapt.
We see that whether among everyday people or celebrities, regardless of wealth, many fail to prosper during fortunate times mainly because of choosing an unsuitable partner. This leads to enduring burdens, harm, and losses. In ancient times, there were clear rules regarding marriage, largely based on accumulated experience, which proved quite useful. Nowadays, they're often dismissed as outdated superstitions. While traditional marriages might have suppressed personal love, they often enabled family prosperity. In contrast, while free love offers temporary satisfaction, it can also waste opportunities for future generations. An old saying goes: "Choosing the wrong partner harms three generations."
Some people think that if one isn't good-looking, they are unlucky or undesired, and only attractive people have good lives. However, fate analysis doesn't concern itself with physical beauty but rather with a person's inherent nature. If someone behaves inappropriately or has a flawed character, their appearance will reflect that discord. In fate analysis, a poor appearance indicates personal shortcomings. Those who are sharp-tongued and critical often face loneliness and marital discord. In today's world, the most troubling issue is that people tend to be lenient with themselves while harsh on others. If someone believes they are inherently good despite having unfavorable fortune, they are deceiving themselves. It's only after years of self-deception that they begin to confront their reality.
Learning more about traditional culture can greatly enhance everyone’s understanding. At the very least, it can help you identify the type of partner who brings abundance versus one who leads to financial loss. Is the type you are drawn to the right one? By simply understanding these dynamics, you can improve your fortune by at least thirty percent.