Facial Analysis: Are You Undermining Your Own Future?
It has been previously noted that what we call misfortune doesn't develop overnight; it's often the result of comparisons and ultimately originates from internal conflicts. For instance, a friend of mine has been playing cards for over a decade. She usually wins and loses infrequently, which led her to believe she's both skilled and lucky—making victories the norm for her. However, when she went through a couple of years with frequent losses, she immediately felt unlucky because her current situation didn't satisfy her expectations. Had she been losing from the start, she might not feel quite so unfortunate.
People often assume they can control their emotions at any given moment. But is that truly the case? Some think emotions are shaped by our environment, but that's not entirely correct. Consider this: when the stakes in gambling are raised, the previous experiences suddenly seem dull. Why does this happen? The thrill isn’t enough anymore, creating dissatisfaction within oneself.
It's safe to say that misfortune isn't solely linked to luck. While luck has its part to play, nobody can remain lucky throughout their entire life. Therefore, when luck diminishes even slightly, feelings of misfortune actually stem from dissatisfaction.
A user once sent a photo inquiring about their perceived misfortune, showing deep lines on their forehead and a gloomy look under their eyes. This indicates a long-term psychological distortion, primarily fueled by comparison. They seek things purely to measure against others. When they fall short of their desires or don't measure up to others, they feel particularly misfortunate. One might deny this, but the evidence doesn’t lie.
Take the example from a few years back when many people with a little extra money aimed to buy houses, partly for investment and partly to gain a psychological edge. Owning a house meant having an advantage over those who didn't or owning several properties compared to someone with just one. Homeowners hoped for rising property values, whereas those without homes were desperate enough to consider selling anything to afford one. What a distorted perspective! Can someone with such thinking genuinely feel fortunate?
Additionally, today’s younger and middle-aged people often pursue sexual excitement, having numerous partners before marriage. Why do they feel unlucky after marriage? Because they're unsatisfied; they experienced too much sexual excitement beforehand, which leads to rapid dissatisfaction post-marriage. This dissatisfaction sparks various issues. Isn't there a direct correlation here? Excessive gamblers often see their families fall apart. The casino itself may not take away their family, but the thrill of gambling poses a hidden risk to family life.
Take a moment to reflect on what you enjoy in your daily life. Are your interests mostly about seeking excitement? This is the essence of what we call interest. Though everyone craves excitement, few contemplate what happens once the thrill wears off. It often leads to enduring dissatisfaction, which in turn can cause emotional upheavals and affect your surroundings, family, relationships, and life in myriad ways.