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In our last issue, we delved into the topic of "people whose faces resemble orange peel, ultimately leading to loneliness." This refers to individuals whose facial skin has an orange peel-like texture, often experiencing difficulties in life and strained family relationships (click here to read more). In this current issue, we explore the saying "those with peach blossom luck often have late children." This expression suggests that people with peach blossom luck tend to have children later, and I will explain this concept in detail below.
So, what does it mean to have peach blossom luck? It describes someone with a gentle and alluring demeanor. A "gentle demeanor" implies a lack of strong opinions, a tendency to rely heavily on others, and indecisiveness. Women with a gentle demeanor are often considered more captivating, having delicate skin and eyes that shimmer like autumn water—qualities that we describe as a "charming demeanor."
Individuals with peach blossom luck are usually gentle and charming, often interacting with the opposite sex early on, indulging in pleasures like drinking and entertainment. In ancient times, strict feudal ideologies and moral codes emphasized women's chastity, limiting their public presence. In such societies, those with a charming demeanor were often criticized, with their behavior deemed immoral, which could adversely affect their marriage prospects. If a woman became pregnant before marriage, she might face severe consequences, contributing to a trend of late childbirth for such individuals, exacerbated by the societal norms of the time.
In contemporary society, the notion that "those with peach blossom luck often have late children" no longer holds. Instead, it might be more accurate to say "those with peach blossom luck are likely to have children early." As society has evolved and become more open-minded, modern women are no longer confined by the limitations of "not stepping out of the door." In this liberated environment, those with a charming demeanor often engage more closely with the opposite sex. While premarital pregnancies have become more common, having children at a young age can increase the risk of complications.
Moreover, individuals with peach blossom luck, regardless of gender, often enjoy indulgence and playfulness, which can lead them to overlook family responsibilities. Even if they do have children, they might face conflict and create a discordant family atmosphere. Their attention and care towards their partners and children might be limited, resulting in weaker familial bonds.
Therefore, when considering friendships or romantic relationships with individuals who possess peach blossom luck, it is wise to stay rational and take time to understand their character and traits. For those with peach blossom luck wishing to change this lifestyle, a fundamental shift in mindset is necessary. Focusing less on indulgence and more on careers, maintaining healthy relationships with the opposite sex, and valuing both professional and family life can lead to a more positive life trajectory.