Are You at Risk of Divorce?
If you're married, how do you feel about your relationship? Are you worried about the possibility of divorce? If you're curious, why not take the psychological test below to see how likely a divorce might be?
1. You have a beloved flower at home, and it looks like it’s about to wither. What do you do?
A: Throw it out and buy a hardier one. (10 points)
B: Let it live or die on its own. (5 points)
C: Water it a little and see if it perks up. (3 points)
D: Do your best to save it. (1 point)
2. One day you are having dinner with friends, and there is a dish you love placed far away from you. What will you do?
A: Go over and get some. (10 points)
B: Too lazy to get it, just eat what’s within reach. (5 points)
C: Ask a friend to get some for you. (3 points)
D: Stand up and serve yourself a big portion. (1 point)
3. Suppose a friend you don’t usually interact with urgently asks to borrow money but doesn’t want to tell you why. What will you do?
A: Find an excuse to refuse. (10 points)
B: Reluctantly lend it to them. (5 points)
C: Lend it, but ask for an IOU. (3 points)
D: Insist on knowing the reason before deciding. (1 point)
4. One day you wear an outfit that is completely different from your usual style, and you receive compliments from those around you. How do you feel?
A: They’re just flattering me. (10 points)
B: Happy, and I might wear this style more often. (5 points)
C: Even if it’s flattery, I still feel pleased. (3 points)
D: It seems this style suits me well. (1 point)
5. You have planted a grapevine outside your window, and it’s about to reach the windowsill. What will you do?
A: Cut it off. (10 points)
B: Let it grow freely. (5 points)
C: Wait until it reaches the windowsill to decide. (3 points)
D: Try to guide it in another direction. (1 point)
6. One day, you are at a bar, and a beautiful person keeps giving you flirtatious looks. How do you feel?
A: Go over and strike up a conversation. (10 points)
B: They might be interested in me. (5 points)
C: I must be pretty charming—should I buy them a drink? (3 points)
D: Politely smile back. (1 point)
7. If you see a bird's nest in a big tree, how do you feel?
A: I want to climb up and take a look. (10 points)
B: The nest might be empty. (5 points)
C: There might be an adult bird and several chicks inside. (3 points)
D: There are two happy birds in the nest. (1 point)
8. What do you think of Leonardo da Vinci's "Mona Lisa"?
A: I don’t like it. (10 points)
B: The colors are too dark, but the rest is okay. (5 points)
C: It’s a fantastic masterpiece. (3 points)
D: Her smile is quite mysterious. (1 point)
9. There is a tall person in bright clothing with long hair standing far away. What do you think their gender is?
A: I’m not sure because they’re too far away. (10 points)
B: It doesn’t matter whether they’re male or female. (5 points)
C: Probably a man. (3 points)
D: Probably a woman. (1 point)
10. On April Fool's Day, you receive a call from a friend who says they are sick. What is your reaction?
A: They shouldn’t joke about being sick. (10 points)
B: Call someone else to confirm. (5 points)
C: They’re probably lying. (3 points)
D: Go straight to the hospital to see them. (1 point)
Add up your scores and go to the next page to see the results.
Psychological Test Result A: 79-100 points (79%-100%)
High risk of divorce: You expect perfection in everything, including marriage. To you, a marriage should be happy, and your partner completely loyal and attentive. When reality falls short, you tend to complain and fixate on minor issues. Your critical, sensitive nature can put a lot of pressure on your partner. They may tolerate it at first, but over time, their pent-up dissatisfaction can erupt, and the relationship may deteriorate quickly, leading to divorce.
Psychological Test Result B: 55-78 points (55%-78%)
Risk of divorce: You hold many unrealistic ideas—especially about marriage—and tend to be overly optimistic. When reality doesn’t match your expectations, you struggle to adapt and feel disappointed, which fuels dissatisfaction and complaints. Unless you separate ideals from reality and adjust your mindset, continuing to nag your partner will only deepen the rift between you, making divorce more likely.
Psychological Test Result C: 33-54 points (33%-54%)
Indecisive type: You don’t have strong opinions and are easily swayed by others. In your marriage, you often take a passive role, going along with whatever your partner says. This indecisiveness can lead your partner to underestimate you and take you less seriously. If a third party gets involved, your marriage may face a crisis. Learn to take charge of your own life and avoid being overly influenced by others; this may help keep the shadow of divorce at bay.
Psychological Test Result D: 10-32 points (10%-32%)
Low risk of divorce: You’re thoughtful and know how to handle emotions. When faced with the complexities of marriage, you navigate them skillfully and manage the relationship well. While you invest a lot of effort, you also reap great rewards, leading to a warm and happy marriage. For you, divorce feels like a distant concern.