How Many Relationships Will You Have Before Getting Married?
In love, do you see yourself as a supportive partner, or are you the one who takes the lead? On your romantic journey, have you missed out on true love due to poor decisions, or has your romance been disrupted by external influences? In matters of love, there isn't a right or wrong, only sincerity or insincerity. Today, Teacher Fanxin utilizes metaphysics and psychology to offer you a test to determine how many relationships you may need to experience before finding true love.
Test Method: Please answer the following questions in order and add up your scores. Then check the test results based on your total score. (Choosing A is 1 point, B is 2 points, C is 3 points, and D is 4 points.)
1. If your partner is very particular and expects a big surprise for his/her birthday tomorrow, but you have an important seminar to attend, what would you do?
A: Buy a random gift for him/her
B: Arrange to have dinner with him/her after the seminar
C: Celebrate his/her birthday in advance
D: Ask friends to help throw an unforgettable birthday party for him/her
2. If your partner is obsessed with cleanliness and asks you to discard your cherished collection of toy puppets, what would you do?
A: Ignore him/her
B: Argue with him/her
C: Explain your feelings and plead to keep them
D: Secretly relocate the toys
3. If you earn only 3000 yuan a month, but your partner often asks for expensive gifts, what would you do?
A: Tell him/her directly that you can't afford it
B: Harshly criticize him/her
C: Ask your partner to be more realistic
D: Create some thoughtful gifts for him/her
4. After nearly 2 years of dating, your partner is introducing you to his/her parents today. What would you do?
A: Treat his/her parents well but don't overdo it
B: Take his/her parents to a fancy restaurant
C: Research their interests in advance to prepare
D: Cook for them and prepare thoughtful gifts
5. After arguing, your partner stays out all night, and a friend you dislike claims your partner is at a hotel with someone else. What would you do?
A: Rush to the hotel to confront them
B: Get very angry and contact your partner's parents
C: Clarify the situation before deciding what to do
D: Trust that your partner wouldn't do that
6. If you're a senior executive under pressure and your partner offers illegal means to help meet your targets, what would you do?
A: Ask for your partner's help
B: See if your partner is willing to help
C: Directly ask your partner not to get involved
D: Find other ways to achieve your goals
7. If you're getting close to a coworker of the opposite sex who develops feelings for you, and your partner questions your loyalty, what would you do?
A: Think your partner is being unreasonable
B: Suspect your partner has heard rumors
C: Tell your partner the truth and seek understanding
D: Calm your partner and then change the topic
8. If an accident leaves your partner in a vegetative state, and an old flame aggressively pursues you, what would you do?
A: Ignore your partner and be with your old flame
B: Care for your partner while seeing your old flame
C: Reject your old flame
D: Ask your old flame to keep a distance
9. In a dream, you see your partner intimately involved with someone else, and upon waking, your first reaction is?
A: Assume your partner is cheating
B: Secretly follow your partner
C: Find out the facts indirectly
D: Think you're overthinking it
10. If your partner wronged you over something minor and tomorrow marks your 5th anniversary, what would you do?
A: Sulk and not contact your partner
B: Wait silently for your partner to reach out
C: Hint at the upcoming anniversary
D: Plan a surprise celebration in advance and inform your partner
11. If your partner unexpectedly visits your door at night with affectionate eyes, what do you think?
A: Believe your partner misses you
B: Suspect your partner did something wrong
C: Think your partner needs something
D: Believe your partner wants to be intimate
Check answers on the next page
11-18 points
In relationships, you are direct, unable to mask your feelings, and not very articulate. This bluntness can lead to misunderstandings. You are not one to easily yield to your partner and you cannot tolerate any deceit; even a small lie might cause you to lose trust. Your impulsive nature means it may take 5-6 relationships before you successfully enter the realm of marriage.
Advice: Work on expressing yourself more diplomatically and be open to compromise. This will help smooth your path to marriage.
19-26 points
In love, you are bold and willing to give your all. Once committed, you support and trust your partner unconditionally, fiercely defending their honor. However, you believe love should be reciprocal; if your partner isn't providing enough security, you may start questioning them, potentially leading true love to slip away. You might need 4 relationships before you can achieve true love.
Advice: Give your partner the space and time they need to build a more harmonious relationship.
27-34 points
You are highly sensitive and cautious, making it hard to trust others. In love, you act like a "detective," observing every detail about your partner. You approach love with the seriousness of a work project, striving for perfection, which can overwhelm your partner and diminish the fun in the relationship. Even when they try to improve the relationship, your over-rational approach might lead to failure. You may need around 3 relationships before marriage.
Advice: Relax your approach to love and change your interaction style to enjoy a more comfortable relationship.
35-44 points
You value logic, are meticulous, and approach love with gentleness and humility. You know how to provide your partner with a sense of security and are attentive to their well-being. Once committed, you support both your partner and their family, offering them the best material and spiritual experiences. However, you may sometimes be too quiet or overthink, making it hard for your partner to understand you. You're likely to succeed in marriage after 1-2 relationships.
Advice: Learn to open your heart more in love, which will help strengthen your relationship.