Susan Miller's Zodiac Love Guide: Gemini

Everyone longs for a beautiful love. In the pursuit of it, have you ever found your hopes thwarted for one reason or another? Or faced so many hurdles that you ultimately missed the person you loved? If you’re still searching for love without a clear sense of direction, consider the advice of master astrologer Susan Miller—you’ll find it invaluable. This article is a love guide specifically for Gemini men and women.

Gemini Men: May 21 - June 20

Gemini men are smart and charismatic, often the center of attention. They’ll light up a room with the latest joke or story they picked up at work. As the messengers of the gods, Geminis are frequently drawn to writing and journalism. They’re exceptional communicators, ready for any opportunity or challenge.

Challenges Presented by Gemini Men

Gemini men crave a constant stream of updates, so keep pace with their thoughts by following the news every day. No one devours current-affairs publications quite like a Gemini—their coffee table can look like a newsstand. Once they finish the paper, they’ll probably flip on TV news, so be prepared to accommodate this habit. Your goal is to convince him that you’re the most interesting thing in his life.

How to Win the Heart of a Gemini Man

First, become his favorite source of fresh information. Before you see him, pass along a tidbit you just caught from a Reuters report, leave a voicemail with the latest scoop on his office line, or fax him a clipping you know will intrigue him. That will capture his attention—and may get you into his inner circle.

Remember, Geminis need constant change and variety. The more you surprise and excite him, the more likely he is to fall for you. Don’t reveal everything about yourself at once; if he feels there’s nothing left to discover, he may look elsewhere. Gemini men have a strong need to figure things out on their own, so keep him guessing.

Be proactive in bed—this truly ignites his passion. Don’t be shy. Geminis are highly intelligent and respond to stimulating, playful language. Engage his mind and imagination to deepen your intimacy. Try reading a few passages from an erotic novel (choose something with some literary merit—if it’s too lowbrow, he might question your intellect, which matters to brainy Geminis). Likewise, tuck little love notes into his suit pocket, briefcase, or anywhere he’ll easily find them; these small surprises can have more impact than old-fashioned love letters.

Things to Do and Gifts to Buy

Use a fragrant essential oil to give your Gemini man a massage to ease mental tension. Ruled by Mercury, which governs the nervous system, he’s easily stimulated. Pay special attention to his hands, which tend to hold stress (perhaps from all that time at the keyboard). Gemini men are incredibly charming and often look younger than their age. Play to their childlike spirit and tease them. (Geminis are master flirts—they’ll respond in kind.) Turn up the wit and humor if you’re ready to spark the flame. Chances are, when you’re talking to him, he’ll be in front of his computer—Geminis are champion multitaskers. If he’s absorbed in a great novel, tease him by slowly unbuttoning his shirt from behind and caressing his chest; soon he’ll be under your spell.

Represented by twins soaring through the sky, your Gemini man’s greatest joy is jetting off to distant cities. Surprise him with two tickets to a faraway island; he’s a messenger of the skies, so use that to your advantage and seduce him on the plane (there’s not much room, but you can make it work). He’ll be more engaged and excited in his element than anywhere else.

Are Geminis often confused? Only when they’re bored. Your job is to keep him enthusiastic and mentally devoted to you. Here’s the ultimate gift for a communication-loving Gemini: pay for a year of internet service and send him at least one passionate email every week. What better way to keep his focus on you?

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Gemini Women: May 21 - June 20

Gemini women are full of passion and vitality. Lively and curious, they love to dive into a wide range of topics. Don’t tell her, “You should focus on one thing at a time,” because she thrives on variety and keeps many hobbies and pursuits in motion. When she’s juggling lots of activities, she’s at her best. Geminis are outstanding communicators, especially when it comes to sharing feelings and ideas. (Take away her phone and it’s like depriving her of oxygen.) She won’t stay with a man who tries to force or limit her; the symbol of Gemini is a pair of twins in flight, and restricting a Gemini is like caging a lovely bird.

Challenges Presented by Gemini Women

She’s a whirlwind with a never-ending to-do list and can show signs of forgetfulness. But with a life like hers, who wouldn’t? She accomplishes more in a week than most people do in a month. When she gets wrapped up in activities, friends, and admirers, you’ll need to remind her of priorities—but that’s no easy task.

How to Win the Heart of a Gemini Woman

Do some research on current topics that spark your interest—hot trends in art, technology, movies, or books. Then invite her to a show or to a café to discuss them over coffee. Gemini women love live debate (she may have captained the debate team in college). Some great bookstores play music that encourages browsing; take her there. (Gemini rules the printed word, so she loves bookstores.) If she has a new notebook, offer to help set it up. (She can do it herself, but she prefers having someone assist.) Suggest stopping by a store after work to check out fax machines so she can choose the one that best fits her needs. Convince her to visit a mobile phone shop with you to pick out the best model, then compare notes together. As you can see, everything is communication-oriented; no matter how trivial these activities may sound, they’ll excite her. She’ll fall in love with how engaged you are.

Must-Do Activities and Gifts to Buy

Buy her a mobile phone or a pager with voicemail, and prepay a year of service so you can call, send her sweet messages, or even secretly link her phone bill to yours. (Make sure there are cultural activities and nightlife—remember, Geminis need lots of stimulation.) Short on cash? If her fax machine is for personal use, send a flirty love note by fax. Or surprise her with a bouquet of roses delivered by FedEx—she’ll be touched by your creativity.

In bed, whisper sweet nothings, spin your own stories, or read short tales. This is the most verbally expressive sign; her sharp intellect and rich imagination are your most reliable path to passionate love. You can read steamy novels in bed without worrying about laughing or joking during intimacy. Geminis are the most innocent and straightforward sign; she’ll appreciate exploring different positions and will be willing to try at least once.

Additionally, Gemini women are very articulate, so they can talk a lot. I hope this is helpful—good luck, my friend!