Susan Miller's Astrology Guide to Love: Aquarius
A beautiful love is something everyone longs for. While pursuing love, have you ever felt you couldn’t get what you wanted for all kinds of reasons? Or faced so many obstacles that you ended up missing out on the person you love? If you’re still searching for love without a clear sense of direction, consider the advice from master astrologer Susan Miller—you may find it very helpful. This guide focuses specifically on Aquarius men and women.
Aquarius Men: January 20 - February 18
Aquarius men are known for their fierce independence and creativity, and many also have a keen interest in science and technology. Aquarians rarely dwell on the past; their gaze is fixed on the future. Your Aquarius partner likely cares about humanitarian causes and enjoys getting involved in environmental and social justice efforts. They’re often natural, charismatic leaders—several U.S. presidents, including Ronald Reagan, were Aquarians. They typically have a wide circle of friends, though only a select few make it into their inner circle.
Challenges Presented by Aquarius Men
For Aquarius men, friendship is paramount—you may sometimes feel his friends matter more to him than you do. That’s not necessarily a real problem; it can just feel that way in the moment. Falling for an Aquarius man can be frustrating, as he may seem aloof and hard to read. But as the French saying goes, if you truly love someone, step into their world rather than stand outside looking in.
How to Win the Heart of an Aquarius Man
In love and marriage, Aquarius men need to maintain their sense of individuality and freedom. If you’ve fallen for an Aquarius man, be wise enough not to try to control him. Aquarius men often wrestle with whether solitude or partnership suits them better. This inner tug-of-war can drive you crazy; the best approach is to let it be and not take it personally. When upset, they tend to withdraw or act indifferent rather than make a scene. Encourage him to step out of that shell and get comfortable sharing his thoughts. When you disagree, reasoned discussion works best—he’s good at analyzing problems.
Nothing delights an Aquarius more than talking about gadgets and tech. They are ruled by Uranus, which represents the future. He might spend all day glued to his computer, worrying only about crashes or battery life. Mention that your streaming device or home network needs setting up, that your computer crashed, or that your email isn’t working—playing a little clueless can be a surprisingly effective icebreaker.
Send him frequent messages to let him know you’re thinking of him, and meet in unconventional spots. If possible, sprinkle in quirky wordplay. Attend computer enthusiast meetups together, watch the latest 3D releases, or play some virtual reality games. Meeting up at internet cafés or gaming lounges can help you feel closer. Sound fun? Aquarians also love a good party, so if it’s lively, bring him along.
Don’t limit your contact to email; leave sweet voicemails or call in the morning to set up an evening date. Share meaningful moments and reminisce. However, remember he may see this as friendship rather than romance at first. Don’t rush things or pressure him.
He’ll appreciate trendy, sexy outfits—synthetic fabrics and a bit of shine can catch his eye. Aquarians are naturally intrigued by sensuality and enjoy experimenting. He might even pop into an adult store and bring home some playful items. With an Aquarius man, be ready to keep things playful and embrace his quirky side.
Aquarius Women: January 20 - February 18
Aquarius women are intelligent, independent, a bit rebellious, and original. Part of their appeal is that they don’t depend on men; if anything, they enjoy a battle of wits with their partners. They have a wide circle of friends and prefer to be self-sufficient. Many Aquarius women are leaders in their fields, skilled at analysis and socializing. If you want to stand beside her, lead with intellect and logic rather than trying to sway her emotions.
Challenges Presented by Aquarius Women
Your challenge is to keep things from getting dull—boredom can be fatal to your relationship. She’s not easy to pin down; just when you think you’ve won her over, she slips away. She needs her own space, and plenty of guys may orbit around her (she’ll tell you they’re just friends), so keep your emotions steady.
Gift-Giving Tips
Aquarius women love colors like purple, cobalt blue, and charcoal gray. They tend to favor sleek, trendy looks, and some Aquarius women aren’t overly fussy about clothes. Their jewelry tastes are distinctive, often eclectic or New Age. A stylish crystal makes a great gift. Their singular style shows from head to toe—they’re often ahead of the curve.
A heartfelt voicemail is undoubtedly another great touch. Leaving her intimate words of love is perfect. If you invite her to dinner, it’s best to know her favorite foods in advance, as many Aquarius women are vegetarian. She doesn’t need the luxury of a five-star restaurant; she’ll prefer lively little spots with delicious food where she can meet up with friends. (It’s really hard to get an Aquarius to be alone!)
Aquarius women aren’t usually restrained in bed; they openly enjoy intimacy. She might even suggest video as foreplay—Aquarius rules the electronic realm. If you’re already deeply involved, she might be open to taking a few selfies. Since she likes to take the lead, you could suggest a semi-public setting. In a Vietnamese film, such spots are called “lover’s houses”—homes right off a busy street where city sounds and footsteps can be heard, adding a unique thrill. Along those lines, the next time you’re at a party, play a little hide-and-seek, choosing a room where you can hear guests chatting—maybe a closet or pantry—for a different kind of excitement. If you know her well, don’t worry about her reaction to a quick encounter—chances are, she’ll love it!