How to Address Birthmarks?
Mole Reading has long been regarded as one of the more mysterious and accurate branches of physiognomy. However, the presence of moles in inconvenient places can be quite unsettling. Why do we have moles that signify bad fortune? Are we destined to accept this fate? Why do some people not have these moles while we do? Once a mole appears, are we resigned to our destiny?
These thoughts lead some individuals to develop extreme views, including not only laypeople but also many so-called experts. They often think, "Isn't it just about assessing that mole? If you remove the mole, then there's nothing to assess anymore, right? So, the bad fortune must disappear." Typically, when someone says that a certain mole is bad and removing it will solve the problem, they are simply outsiders to the subject.
Moles are quite intriguing; they exist beneath the skin, are neither pathological nor congenital, and cannot be explained through Western scientific perspectives. However, they can be understood through Eastern traditional metaphysics. Why do moles appear after birth rather than at birth? This is because, at birth, our characteristics are not yet defined. As a person grows, certain traits and tendencies become more pronounced, leading to the appearance of moles. Humans are intertwined with nature, sharing similar traits. For example, rivers are never perfectly straight; they have curves, elevations, and variations in flow, creating whirlpools in specific areas. These whirlpools are like human moles. While whirlpools may not be visible at the river's source, they appear in certain parts of the river. Similarly, when certain traits or tendencies become pronounced in a person, moles emerge.
I have a friend whose facial features do not suggest any potential for wealth; his eyebrows are sparse, and his nostrils are exposed. However, his wife is quite skilled at managing finances. Before marriage, he was drifting through society, and after they married, both faced numerous job challenges. At their lowest point, they had only twenty yuan. Yet, this person has two notable characteristics: first, his eyes are very bright, indicating a naturally quick mind, but such adaptable individuals often lack diligence; second, he is significantly influenced by his wife's hardworking and uncomplaining nature. Before he turned thirty, a mole appeared on his left eyebrow, symbolizing that wealth was on the horizon. Less than two years later, after working hard, he started a business, which expanded to three stores within three years, now employing over ten people, with income that speaks for itself.
Moles reflect one's characteristics, which mirror inner aspirations and tendencies. For instance, some people yearn for passionate, intense love and revel in such experiences, leading to the formation of tear moles. Others may have an insatiable appetite, always feeling unsatisfied even when full, often imagining their next meal. Such individuals typically develop moles at the corners of their mouths. In simple terms, whatever you are obsessed with, yearn for, like, or reject, when it reaches a certain level or sufficiently influences your future fate, moles will appear.
So, if you remove a mole, does that mean your obsessions, desires, preferences, and rejections disappear? Thinking this way is as naïve as covering your ears while stealing a bell. Therefore, when a mole appears, especially an undesirable one, it should prompt immediate reflection. It is inevitably a consequence of long-term deviations in your thoughts and behaviors. For instance, if a destructive mole appears, you need to examine yourself: do you have a tendency to take reckless risks? Do you sometimes display a gambler's mentality, especially when desires go unfulfilled? If so, this already indicates that continuing down this path will lead to ruin. How to control and change this depends on your willingness to take control. If you are too lazy to change or unwilling to do so, your fate will follow that trajectory.
What if a person changes their characteristics but the mole remains? Please do not view moles as mysterious demons; they themselves will not harm you. If a person has an undesirable mole but works hard to correct themselves, even if the bad mole remains, favorable moles can also emerge, often more pronounced in size, color, and location than the original bad mole. For instance, if a woman has a tear mole but adjusts her mindset, she may later develop moles that bring prosperity to her husband and family, lessening the impact of the tear mole.
Moles serve as warning signs; they are not stigmas to be feared. It is not the mole that determines your fate, but rather the conditions that lead to the formation of corresponding moles. Understanding moles involves understanding how to improve oneself.