Men to Watch Out For in Relationships

For many women, when dating men, it’s worth paying close attention to certain kinds of eyes. Choose carefully, or you may regret it later. The author, Di Tian Ju Shi, offers the following summaries as reminders.

1. Peach Blossom Eyes

In men, the hallmark of peach blossom eyes is a gaze that seems to smile even when the mouth doesn’t. For many women unfamiliar with physiognomy, this is a key sign—men whose eyes “smile” tend to be naturally charming and attractive. Unless you’re prepared to share him, you may end up emotionally drained. While being together can feel easy, it’s likely to be a relationship you’ll have to share.

Many women find it hard to resist the affection suggested by such eyes, but surface-level allure rarely holds up under scrutiny.

2. Weak-Willed Eyes

Some men are naturally indecisive and avoid responsibility. Their eyes tend to be set wide apart, with outer corners that droop. If this wide spacing and droop are pronounced, and paired with low cheekbones, these men are unlikely to project much masculinity.

If you want to lead a man for the long haul, this is your best candidate. However, Di Tian Ju Shi believes that if you expect a man like this to support you, you may be disappointed.

3. Narrow-Minded Eyes

Some men are best suited to very traditional women. They have closely spaced eyes and thick eyebrows that may meet or nearly meet. After dating such a man, you’ll be expected to keep a considerable distance from other men, as he won’t like his partner being out of his sight.

4. Violent Eyes

If a man’s eyes are overly prominent (not due to severe myopia), he may have violent tendencies and an aggressive temperament. He might prefer to solve problems with his fists. Unless you’re absolutely convinced he loves you, it’s best to avoid situations that could lead to domestic violence.

5. Eyebrow-Heavy Eyes

Eyebrows shouldn’t overshadow the eyes. If a man has this feature, Di Tian Ju Shi advises caution, as he may be narrow-minded and face many obstacles in life. Relationships with such individuals can also be quite challenging.

6. Deceitful Eyes

Some men are innately cunning. Their biggest tell is that when speaking to others, their gaze tends to wander and avoids direct eye contact. Being with such men often feels like a gamble, and your feelings may be treated as bargaining chips, making genuine affection hard to find.

Eyes are the windows to the heart. The types described above are common in everyday life, so keep your eyes wide open.