Can a 'Concubine's Appearance' Be Changed?

 “Concubine” was a distinct marital system in ancient China, unlike the role of a “wife.” In the realm of physiognomy, there's a belief concerning a “concubine” face. Generally, this describes women who are considered unfortunate in terms of family and marriage luck, making it difficult for them to enter into legitimate marriages as a “wife.” It was often a status dictated by the powerful class.

People in ancient times believed that women with certain facial features were typically thought to possess a “concubine face.”

1. Eyes like dew, charming but lacking dignity

It's often said that eyes are the windows to the soul. Eyes that resemble dew suggest an emotional nature. These women are more easily swept away by emotions, and if they fall in love, they may ignore whether the man is already married.

The main issue is that these women often lack self-respect and do not adhere to traditional Chinese values. In the past, it was thought that noble women didn't need to be charming; those who were dignified would naturally find a good husband for a loving and enduring marriage. Without dignity and relying solely on charm, it was challenging to rise socially and secure a legitimate marriage. Such women might enjoy wealth but struggle to find familial happiness, often becoming lovers or secondary wives, rather than the primary spouse.

2. Curved philtrum, spots at the outer corners of the eyes

In physiognomy, one's desires can often be seen in the philtrum area, which reflects reproductive abilities. A curved philtrum often signals uncontrollable or abnormal desires. Women with this feature may seek more than one partner, and in their husband's absence, they could be prone to infidelity.

The outer corners of the eyes symbolize the marital palace. Spots, scars, or moles in this area can indicate challenging marital situations, often involving entanglements with already married men. Therefore, women with these features, especially those who are unmarried, should be cautious about emotional involvements that could hinder their chances of a legitimate marriage.

3. Smiling eyebrows like willows, with a mole at the tail

Willow-shaped eyebrows are generally considered attractive. However, women with these eyebrows often indulge in romantic notions and can easily become entangled with multiple men. Such eyebrows, when paired with a mole at the tail, indicate a women can be cunning in their flirtations and easily attract or become involved with men who are already committed.

4. Eyes higher than ears, prominent cheekbones

The height relationship between ears and eyes can suggest tendencies to become a third party. Women whose eyes are higher than their ears are susceptible to emotional manipulation by sweet words or promises from men and may not notice they’ve become a mistress.

Prominent cheekbones denote a sharp personality, and once these women fall in love, they can be intensely committed, even if the man is married. Convincing them otherwise can be very challenging.

5. Irregular forehead, pointed and thin chin

An irregular forehead implies they're unlikely to become the legitimate wife, often relegated to being a subsequent wife. A well-rounded chin indicates prosperity in later life, while a pointed, thin chin suggests a life of instability and family discord, making it challenging to become the primary spouse.

6. Sharp nose, prominent horizontal bone

The nose is associated with wealth and reflects one's husband's fortune. A high, prominent nose can benefit the husband. However, a sharp, sword-like nose suggests difficulty in supporting a husband or raising children, making it hard to achieve prosperity. Women with a low or flat nose are said to lack personal insights and are easily content, making them more susceptible to emotional entanglements that can lead to being a concubine or secondary wife.

7. Oval face, weak chin

An attractive face should be complemented by a defined chin to ensure a harmonious marriage; if not, it's challenging to receive cosmic blessings, leading to a lack of familial warmth. An oval face with a weak chin often signifies emotional instability and loyalty issues, suggesting an increased likelihood of becoming a secondary spouse.

8. Small feet, lacking flesh and bone

In ancient beliefs, feet were significant: representing the foundation and support of the body. Women with small, weak feet were less likely to become the official wife. Foot arches were also seen as essential, with flat feet representing difficulty in being accepted into a primary household.

9. Heavy voice, hoarse speech

Voice is thought to be an echo of the soul. A heavy and hoarse voice might indicate challenges for her husband and a tendency towards poverty, suggesting she needs to be self-reliant.

10. Full of peach blossoms, swaying hands, and soft waist

Being ‘full of peach blossoms’ involves having notable facial features like ‘peach blossom eyes’ or a ‘peach blossom face,’ signifying a constant influx of admirers but not necessarily stable relationships. Such women with swaying movements often struggle with self-identity and can be easily manipulated or deceptive, hinting at financial and marital instability.

Women with a “concubine face” often prefer work outside the home. A steady job can help channel their energy. Dressing conservatively can help avoid unwanted attention.

They should focus on self-improvement, maintaining propriety, and regularly assessing their behavior. One’s appearance reflects inner changes; thus, altering one's fate is closely tied to altering one's heart.

For those in less conventional professions, financial foresight is key, as later years may not be prosperous. They should simultaneously keep an eye out for genuine, reliable partners to help break free from perceived destiny.

While they might attract many admirers in their youth, it's crucial not to grow arrogant; planning for the future is wise, as youth is fleeting.