Dream Test: How Far Would You Go for Love?

Whether you're dating or already married, everyone experiences love in their own way. Deep down, most of us share the same hope: to make it last a lifetime. You might think fate has its own plans, but your dreams can hint at how far your love may go.

Chen Peng believes the power of dreams lies not in their strangeness but in how they weave together pieces of information from our lives. When it comes to love, dreams often reflect lifestyle habits and shared interests. Interpreting them can reveal more about human nature than we realize. Use your own dreams to see how far your love might go.

The following dream prompts are intended for individuals aged 16 and up. For each item, choose one of four options: A. Often B. Sometimes C. Rarely D. Never (A = 3 points, B = 2 points, C = 1 point, D = 0 points)

1. How often do you dream?

2. How often do you dream about romantic encounters?

3. How often do you dream about ghosts?

4. How often do you dream about being chased?

5. How often do you dream about being wronged by others?

6. How often do you dream about a partner cheating?

7. How often do you dream about water entering your home?

8. How often are you alone in your dreams?

9. How often do you stop your partner from doing certain things in a dream?

10. How often do you dream about your partner's phone, QQ, or MSN?

Add up your points to get your total score.

26–30 points: Your love lasts less than 1 year

You tend to be very self-focused and insecure, prioritizing your own feelings. You equate love with control, which ultimately leads to trouble. You may feel you’re giving your all, yet the relationship rarely lasts beyond a year. Even when you stay together, it often becomes a tense arrangement centered on material or physical needs.

16–25 points: Your love lasts less than 3 years

In the honeymoon phase, you feel happy and accomplished, making it easy to move toward marriage. However, persistent suspicion and frequent anxiety take a toll. Your partner may try to reassure you at first, but it doesn’t hold. Over time, warm feelings settle into routine family affection, while unresolved negativity sparks conflict and even thoughts of divorce.

6–15 points: Your love lasts 5–10 years

You’re kind, hardworking, and devoted, so your path from first love to marriage and children tends to be smooth. A few years after the kids arrive, however, issues can surface as your focus shifts heavily to parenting and your partner feels neglected. Your partner’s growing maturity may draw attention from others. This rarely results in divorce, but it can lead to outside temptations while maintaining stability at home.

0–5 points: Your love lasts a lifetime

You place deep trust in your partner, who is also an exceptional person. Your mutual commitment makes life feel grounded and natural. Warmth matters, but you no longer chase TV-style romance; you value everyday life. As a result, your love can last a lifetime.