Are You at Risk of Falling for the Wrong Person?

What is your perspective on love? Do you chase it recklessly, like a moth drawn to a flame, or do you cautiously prioritize reason over emotion? Discovering the right person to grow old with is an admirable goal, yet it's often elusive. In their youth, people frequently get entangled in a web of emotions, sometimes sacrificing everything for that special someone, only to later conclude that it wasn't worth it—resulting in lifelong regret. Today, Teacher Fanxin will use metaphysics, I Ching, and psychology to offer a test to determine how likely you are to fall for the wrong person.

Testing Method: Please answer the following questions in order and tally your scores. Finally, check your results based on your total score. (Choosing A = 1 point, B = 2 points, C = 3 points, D = 4 points.)

1. Imagine you are relaxing solo in your backyard on a summer afternoon when you suddenly hear a beautiful voice singing from afar. Then, the person suddenly calls your name. What's your first reaction?

A: You think the person wants to surprise you.

B: You assume it’s an old flame.

C: You figure it's likely your new neighbor.

D: You sense something unusual is about to happen with this person.

2. Suppose you've been dealing with insomnia and visit a doctor at the hospital. The doctor is very enthusiastic and requests to exchange contact information. How do you react?

A: You think the doctor has taken a liking to you.

B: You believe you have established a good rapport with the doctor.

C: You decide to flirt back with the doctor.

D: You see it as an opportunity to get closer to the doctor.

3. Envision a winter afternoon, you're outside walking when suddenly you see someone in a short-sleeve shirt running toward you with a bag of fruit. What’s your initial reaction?

A: You believe the person has mistaken you for someone else.

B: You think the person might be unwell mentally.

C: You guess they are an old classmate.

D: You would immediately run away.

4. Suppose you met your partner through dancing and are about to get married. Your partner asks you never to dance again. What is your immediate thought?

A: You suspect your partner thinks you might be cheating.

B: You think your partner might be hiding something.

C: You wonder if your partner is mentally unstable.

D: You assume they want to visit your home.

5. In a dream, you’re suddenly in a swimming pool, naked, surrounded by dolphins. You're afraid, then suddenly hear a loud noise. What do you think will happen next?

A: You think you might be bitten by a dolphin.

B: You predict the loud noise will scare the dolphins away.

C: You believe a kind-hearted person will rescue you.

D: You speculate there’s been a massive explosion killing the dolphins.

6. Imagine you're single and have remained that way for five years. At a social event, a wealthy individual with a disability, about your age, starts pursuing you. What’s your first response?

A: You would directly inform them of your lack of interest.

B: You would consider using them to advance your career.

C: You'd think they genuinely have feelings for you.

D: You'd seriously consider them, despite societal norms.

7. In a dream, you find yourself back in elementary school playing shuttlecock with friends when, suddenly, a tough guy snatches a kid away. What’s your first reaction?

A: You'd cry out in distress.

B: You’d be too scared to utter a sound.

C: You would promptly alert a teacher or parent.

D: You would hide immediately.

8. Suppose someone who has pursued you for a long time confesses their love tonight, stating they're marrying tomorrow and asking for a farewell hug. What's your first thought?

A: You think they’re joking.

B: You would instantly offer them a hug.

C: You suspect they’re deceiving you.

D: You think they have ulterior motives.

9. You and a friend are lost abroad without any means of communication when a dubious-looking individual taps you on the shoulder. How do you react?

A: You assume they have malicious intentions.

B: You think they’re likely a scammer.

C: You would try to evade them.

D: You would seek their help.

10. Suppose you're about to marry, and your most beloved ex suddenly calls, claiming they’ve divorced for your sake. What’s your immediate response?

A: You would ignore them.

B: You still care and wish them well.

C: You feel torn.

D: You’d reconcile with the ex.

11. Suppose you lose your job, and your partner faces bankruptcy. They ask you to offer the house passed down by your parents as collateral for a bank loan. How would you react?

A: You’d ponder the decision carefully before acting.

B: You would find various reasons to decline.

C: You wouldn’t use it as collateral but would seek to lend them money through friends.

D: You'd provide it to them without hesitation.

Please click your total score for the respective answers:

Answer 1: 11-18 points

Answer 2: 19-26 points

Answer 3: 27-34 points

Answer 4: 35-44 points

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