Calculate Your Relationship Strength Index
Everyone wants a stable, lasting relationship, but few truly experience something “steadfast” or “forever.” Curious about how strong your relationship is? Take this quiz together!
1. Do you still surprise each other on anniversaries or birthdays?
2. How do you feel when you find out someone of the opposite sex is pursuing your partner?
3. Do either of you remain friends with an ex—and do you both know about it?
4. Do you talk on the phone frequently each day?
5. Do your partner’s friends know you well?
6. Do your partner’s parents call you from time to time?
7. Do you often argue about small things but get over them quickly?
8. Do you know your partner’s habits and preferences—how they eat, live, and what they like—very well?
9. Is at least one of you a romantic?
10. When one of you wants some quiet, does the other naturally hold back from talking and avoid pushing for a reason?
A. Strength Index: Two Stars
Your relationship doesn’t feel very solid yet. You don’t know each other well and haven’t really woven your lives together. It seems you’re still in the early dating stage—maybe the honeymoon phase. Take time to deepen your understanding and connection so your relationship lasts.
B. Strength Index: Three Stars
You haven’t been together long and seem to be just past the initial honeymoon phase. You have a basic grasp of each other’s preferences and habits, and your relationship is moving toward a steadier, deeper bond. Right now, the focus is on blending your daily lives and social circles.
C. Strength Index: Four Stars
You know each other very well, and your relationship is stable and integrated into everyday life. But that sense of security can make both of you invest less effort, which over time may lead to disappointment. Don’t let things turn bland yet hard to let go. Keep nurturing and maintaining the relationship at every stage.
D. Strength Index: Five Stars
Congratulations—you’re an enviable couple. Your connection, trust, and understanding are so strong you can often read each other with just a glance. To others, you seem like a single unit, and no one—including you—imagines you’d ever part. Best wishes to you both; keep cherishing and protecting your love!