Identify the Stressors You've Been Facing Recently

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Have you recently been feeling inexplicably down or restless? Do you often struggle with insomnia, vivid dreams, emotional instability, or find yourself lost in thought? These feelings are closely linked to the stress and circumstances of your current life. Accumulated stress can disrupt your mental state, leading to irritability or depression. Today, Teacher Fanxin will guide you through a test using metaphysics and psychology to help identify the pressures you need to address.

Test Method: Answer the following questions in order, calculate your total score, and check the results based on your score. (Choosing A is 1 point, B is 2 points, C is 3 points, D is 4 points.)

1. In a dream, you see a person covered in blood chasing you, and you have a bloody axe in your hand. As the person approaches, what is your first reaction?

A: Close your eyes and wait for the worst

B: Close your eyes and swing the axe wildly

C: Aim and strike with the axe

D: Throw the axe away and keep running

2. Which scene resembles your recent dreams the most?

A: Your partner cheats with a friend / you break up / intimacy with a stranger

B: Job loss / boss giving you a hard time / colleagues slandering you

C: Parents pass away / parents fall seriously ill / parents in a car accident

D: Sudden bankruptcy / losing money / home robbery

3. As a marathon runner, you hear the starting gun and begin running. Suddenly, a large truck heads your way, and everything goes black. What do you think happened?

A: I got hit by the truck and blacked out

B: The truck veered in another direction

C: My friend got hit by the truck

D: My partner died trying to save me

4. In a dream, you see a deceased elder's photo on a table, incense sticks burning, and ethereal music playing. Suddenly, the elder's voice calls from behind. What is your first reaction?

A: Scream in fear

B: Feel scared but greet them calmly

C: Think they mean harm and run away

D: Believe they're alerting you to a disaster

5. Subconsciously, which scenario do you feel is likely to occur soon?

A: House explodes / dispute with neighbor / friend becomes a suspect

B: Partner dies suddenly / classmate asks for money / find out non-biological connection

C: Marrying a teacher / losing money gambling / dying to save someone

D: Pet passes away / publicly insulted / losing your phone

6. If you only have one day left to live, and your spouse and child are trapped in a hidden basement, what is your first reaction?

A: Ignore them and enjoy your last day

B: Do everything to save them

C: Stay quietly alone

D: Leave a note and take your life

7. At a large fashion show, your boss calls, but your phone breaks, and you can't answer. What is your first reaction?

A: Think they want you to work overtime

B: Assume they're at the show too

C: Think they need you to bring something

D: Assume they dialed the wrong number

8. In a dream, your partner argues with your parents. Your parents hold a knife, and your partner holds a gun. What is your first reaction?

A: Believe both will die

B: Fear your parents will harm your partner

C: Fear your partner will harm your parents

D: Believe neither will cause harm

9. If your pet cat contracts a strange disease and can transform into different pets or people, what will it turn into?

A: An extremely attractive person of the opposite sex

B: A fierce monster

C: A deceased relative

D: Your ex

10. While mountain climbing, your shoe falls and hits your partner's head, causing them to scream in pain. What is your first reaction?

A: Believe they're seriously injured

B: Think they're warning you

C: Worry they might be in trouble

D: Expect they'll insult you

11. If you were wealthy but your company went bankrupt due to mismanagement, and you visit a temple to meditate and see a Zen master, what do you think he wants to convey?

A: Money is just a material possession

B: True emotions are worth more than wealth

C: Everything will eventually work out

D: Sometimes losing is gaining

Refer to the answers on the following page

 

11-18 points

You've been feeling mentally absent, overthinking, and lacking motivation. You may be under intense emotional stress. Misaligned thoughts with your partner can cause distress when they don't understand you. You're willing to give everything for them but feel limited by your current circumstances. Unmet promises might lead your partner to question your sincerity, resulting in frequent disputes. A lack of deep communication may chill your relationship.

Suggestion: Avoid making promises to your partner that you can't keep; find opportunities to express your true feelings to them.

19-26 points

You might be experiencing setbacks in your career, leaving you exhausted. Your hard work may not be recognized by your boss, and you may face skepticism from colleagues. Perfect plans often fall through due to changes imposed by your boss, colleagues' objections, or partners' obstacles. Financial pressures, such as mortgages, supporting parents, and family expenses, along with a lack of family understanding, can push you to the brink.

Suggestion: Don't rush; adopt a calm perspective on everything.

27-34 points

Your emotions are severely fluctuating, possibly due to the physical discomfort of your parents or partner. This might lead to frustration and reflections on life's impermanence. You may realize that your growth isn't keeping pace with your parents' aging, and you often lack the capacity to support your whole family. Regrets over a lack of past ambition and wasted time, coupled with criticism from relatives and friends, can bring you sadness. You want to escape but don't know how, leading to endless self-torment.

Suggestion: Learn to redefine yourself, find your goals, and strive forward; this will enhance your sense of security.

35-44 points

Lately, you may frequently feel nostalgic, whether for past relationships or youthful recklessness. You might envy your carefree past and despise the chaotic state of your current life. At work, you may need to act strategically and sometimes hurt others, leading to self-hatred and thoughts of retreating to solitude. However, reality prevents you from choosing your own life path, often causing heartbreak.

Suggestion: Think maturely and focus on the future to progress in life.

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