Test: Identifying People to Keep at a Distance
In life, there are always certain individuals who may seem friendly on the surface but take pleasure in spreading rumors or slandering you behind your back. Many people face setbacks due to this, and only when they uncover the truth do they realize what has transpired, often at a great personal cost. Today, Teacher Fanxin will utilize metaphysics and psychology to offer a test that helps you identify individuals you should avoid, leading to a smoother life.
Test Method: Please answer the following questions in sequence and tally your scores. Finally, consult the test results based on your total score. (Select A for 1 point, B for 2 points, C for 3 points, and D for 4 points.)
1. A friend, whether male or female, calls you late at night, having just ended a relationship and asks for your company, while you are currently with your partner. What will you do?
A: Go immediately to accompany your friend
B: Inform your friend that you are unavailable
C: Discuss it with your partner
D: Invite your partner to join you in meeting the friend
2. You and your partner are finalists in a singing competition, and your skills surpass theirs. Your partner asks you to let them win. What will you do?
A: Without hesitation, hold back and let your partner win
B: Agree to hold back but secretly try your best to win
C: Withdraw from the competition
D: Discreetly campaign for your partner
3. If your partner has a disagreement with a friend of your parents, both sides are arguing heatedly while you're present, what will you do?
A: Support your partner by insulting the other party
B: Seek guidance from your parents
C: Encourage both sides to calm down and then leave
D: Understand the situation before deciding on a course of action
4. As a newcomer at work, you're assigned a business trip with an experienced colleague who aims to undermine you. What will you do?
A: Confront the colleague directly and ask them to stop
B: Insult the colleague to their face and demand an apology
C: Pretend to be unaware and report their behavior to your superiors
D: Handle the situation tactfully to avoid harming either party's feelings
5. If your partner is on a business trip abroad, and you're unable to contact them by phone, then dream that your partner tells you they've been framed by a relative of yours, what is your first reaction upon waking up?
A: Directly reach out to the relative to clarify things
B: Share your dream with your parents
C: Assume your partner is genuinely in trouble
D: Calm down before attempting to call your partner
6. If your phone malfunctions and a friend agrees to fix it, yet their behavior seems particularly strange afterward, what is your initial reaction?
A: Suspect that some personal information with your partner has been exposed
B: Worry that they discovered something negative you've said about them
C: Believe your friend may be upset over not being compensated
D: Think your friend is experiencing their own relationship issues
7. When shopping with a friend, you spot a child holding a photo of your favorite ex, with an elderly person nearby. What's your first thought?
A: The child is likely your ex’s
B: Your ex is likely to become famous
C: Your ex is likely to abandon their family
D: Your ex is likely to have disappeared
8. In a competition, you are told to climb a 2000-meter mountain alone with limited resting time. What will you do?
A: Refuse outright to participate
B: Drop out of the competition
C: Prepare for the challenge and take part
D: Complete the task without hesitation or doubt
9. In a dream, you see a distant fire and suddenly, an old friend you haven't been in touch with appears. What is your initial reaction?
A: Fear the person might have passed away
B: Think the person is trying to tell you they’ve been victimized
C: Believe the person wants to reconnect with you
D: Feel the person misses you greatly
10. If wealthy but destined for loneliness, where anyone living with you for a month may die, and you meet someone attracted to your money, what will you do?
A: Use money in exchange for their life
B: Offer money for half a month’s companionship
C: Reveal the truth to the person
D: Give the person money and ask them to leave
11. While praying at a temple, you see a white shadow pass by. What's your first thought?
A: Think you must have been mistaken
B: Assume a monk walked past you
C: Believe a spirit manifested
D: Fear you’ve done something illegal
Check answers on the following page
11-18 points
You have a straightforward and impulsive nature. In the workplace, you may offend others due to your bluntness or disregard for others' dignity, resulting in challenging relationships. In love, though open-hearted toward your partner, your lack of caution may lead to their indifference. Avoid those who are manipulative and cunning, as they might exploit your straightforwardness, leaving you hurt in the end.
Advice: Work on differentiating right from wrong and temper your directness, as it might not always work in your favor.
19-26 points
You possess a strong-willed nature and resist manipulation. You confidently assert your opinions but your forthrightness can lead to confrontations, which may limit the number of true friends you have. In the workplace, you avoid sycophants even if they could assist your career. Be cautious in relationships with others who share similar strong personalities, as this might lead to frequent disagreements or conflicts.
Advice: Learn to manage your emotions and approach situations with a more mature perspective.
27-34 points
You are courageous and generous, selflessly helping others without keeping score. This willingness to sacrifice your own interests has led to taking the blame for others without due recognition. Avoid getting too close to those who seem weak and lack strategy, as their unreasonable demands might take advantage of your generosity, causing continuous harm and eventual trouble.
Advice: Avoid always striving to please everyone, as it may lead to regret.
35-44 points
You hold a strong sense of responsibility, adhere to principles, and reject idle gossip. In the workplace, you keep distance from those whose actions harm company interests, which may label you as hypocritical. In love, intolerance for your partner's unethical actions may indicate a lack of affection. Avoid those who are vain, lack principles, or lead disordered lives, as this can result in unpleasant outcomes.
Advice: Navigate interpersonal relationships with more tact for a more comfortable life.