Evaluate the Likelihood of Your Partner Having Cheated Recently
How has your relationship with your partner been lately? Is it still as open and communicative as before, or have you noticed subtle barriers starting to form between you? There are often signs that can indicate potential infidelity before it occurs. The sooner you recognize and address these signs, the higher the chance that your relationship can improve. Today, Teacher Fanxin will use insights from metaphysics and psychology to present a test that assesses the likelihood of your partner being unfaithful in the near future.
Instructions: Answer the following questions and add up your scores. Then, refer to the test results based on your total score. (Choosing A is 1 point, B is 2 points, C is 3 points, D is 4 points.)
1. In a dream, you see your partner crying heart-wrenchingly with a well-dressed person wearing precious jewelry beside them. What do you think happens next?
A: The person is a childhood friend comforting your partner.
B: The person is persuading your partner to break up with you.
C: The person is an ex-lover of your partner, just passing by.
D: The person is attempting to seduce your partner.
2. If your partner is about to share a serious secret with you, what do you think it could be?
A: They have a serious illness.
B: They have been secretly gambling.
C: They were scammed and lost all their savings.
D: They have had an affair.
3. In a dream, you see your partner riding towards you on a horse when suddenly, it starts to rain heavily. Your partner screams; what do you think happened?
A: They’re frustrated because they got wet.
B: They were bitten by insects.
C: They’re just teasing you.
D: They’re upset by something you’ve done.
4. If, before marriage, you became pregnant, but your partner cannot marry you for practical reasons, what would be your first reaction?
A: To follow your partner’s decision.
B: To feel your partner is helpless but try to persuade them to marry you.
C: To suspect your partner might be unfaithful.
D: To believe that your partner doesn’t love you enough.
5. If, as a ballet dancer, you lose a leg while saving your partner and wake from a coma to see them looking seriously at you, what would be your first thought?
A: Your partner wants to inform you about your amputation.
B: Your partner might be more seriously injured than you.
C: Your partner is caring out of gratitude but may resent you.
D: Your partner no longer desires you.
6. During an outdoor adventure, a wild dog chases you while your partner, fearful of dogs, holds a knife. What would be your first thought?
A: Your partner will bravely save you.
B: Your partner will blindly stab at the dog.
C: Your partner will be too scared to approach the dog.
D: Your partner will abandon you and flee.
7. Which of the following recent events have occurred between you and your partner?
A: Your partner is very attached to you / says sweet things.
B: Your partner values your opinions / enjoys interacting with you.
C: Your partner seems indifferent / doesn’t talk much.
D: Your partner avoids communication / secretly sees others.
8. At a party, your best friend spills juice on your partner. If you ask your partner to brush it off for the sake of appearances, what do you think will happen next?
A: Your partner will retaliate by spilling juice on your friend.
B: Your partner will storm off angrily.
C: Your partner will throw juice at you.
D: Your partner will openly insult both you and your friend.
9. If your partner had only one day to live due to a terminal illness, how do you think they would spend it?
A: With family.
B: With you.
C: With friends.
D: With someone they once loved.
10. If you are accused of a crime while planning to marry your partner, what do you think their immediate reaction would be?
A: They'll find a way to get you out.
B: They'll believe in your innocence.
C: They'll secretly question your innocence.
D: They'll decide not to marry you.
11. At a high-end party, you notice your partner’s ex-flirtatiously engaging with them. After 15 minutes, your partner is missing. What do you think occurred?
A: Your partner went to the bathroom.
B: Your partner met someone and went to chat.
C: Your partner is secretly meeting their ex.
D: Your partner is in a hotel room with their ex.
See the answers on the next page.
11-18 Points
Infidelity Index: 10%
Your partner is currently very affectionate towards you, and the likelihood of infidelity is extremely low. They are attentive and value your opinions, which offers peace of mind. Your playful and occasionally irrational behavior doesn’t annoy your partner; it adds spice to your relationship. You both ignore external gossip and prioritize each other's perspectives. Together, you face challenges, making your relationship enviable.
Advice: In love, grant each other enough respect to ensure a strong and lasting relationship.
19-26 Points
Infidelity Index: 30%
You enjoy life’s finer things and pay attention to details, while your partner is romantic and creative. You share common interests and communicate openly, while also maintaining respect for each other in public. However, your shared rigidity on principles can sometimes lead to conflict, and your partner may feel resentment, especially when you act unreasonably. Recently, your partner's patience seems to have decreased.
Advice: Avoid being too self-centered; practice humility in love.
27-34 Points
Infidelity Index: 50%
With an imaginative and decisive nature, while your partner is articulate and steady, you maintain intimacy by being open and collaborative on important issues, without making unilateral decisions. Mutual respect maintains balance in your love. Lately, however, your partner appears troubled and possibly secretive, leading you to question their honesty.
Advice: Address doubts early to prevent potential crises in your relationship.
35-44 Points
Infidelity Index: 80%
You possess sensitivity and keen intuition. In relationships, you tend to observe quietly, hoping your partner will own up to mistakes without confrontation. Of late, your partner's behavior seems unusual and their interactions with certain people might be beyond your expectation. You yearn to uncover the truth but fear getting hurt, creating internal turmoil and imbalance, which disrupts your intimate life.
Advice: Confront the situation bravely; doing so will lead to greater rewards.