Gauge the Strictness of Those Around You
How are your relationships in life? When you face setbacks, do the people around you offer support, disregard you, or even exploit your situation? Are they generally kind and understanding, or are they more critical and inclined to make things difficult for you? Today, Teacher Fanxin will utilize metaphysics, the I Ching, and psychology to provide a test to gauge how challenging or supportive the people around you are.
1. In a dream, you’re playing a game with a friend when an elderly person suddenly kneels before you and starts crying. What do you think your initial reaction would be?
2. In a dream, you’re starting a business with a friend, but they suddenly tell you they want to get married and no longer wish to continue the business. Upon waking, what is your initial reaction?
3. In a dream, a stranger of the opposite sex continually stares at you, hinting that they like you. When you wake up, what is your initial reaction?
4. In your subconscious, which of the following scenarios do you think is most likely to happen soon?
5. In a dream, a farmer collapses in front of you, and a large group of police appear behind you. When you wake up, what is your initial reaction?
6. In a dream, your parents surprisingly tell you they plan to leave their inheritance to your sister. When you wake up, what is your initial reaction?
7. In a dream, you’re running across a grassy field when suddenly a dragon appears behind you. Upon waking, what is your initial reaction?
8. In a dream, you are doing laundry, and suddenly a creature with a snake body and a human face emerges from your washing machine. How do you react upon waking?
9. In a dream, while you and your friends are drinking at a bar, you hear a gunshot behind you. What is your initial reaction upon waking?
10. If a friend suddenly reveals to you that they went to prison for theft, what would be your immediate reaction?
11. In a dream, while vacationing in a hotel with your partner, someone knocks on the door, and you find a bloodied person at your doorstep. What is your initial reaction when you wake up?
Harshness Index: 90 Points
You are someone who easily feels insecure, often experiencing unstable emotions and anxiety when facing challenges. In relationships, you tend to be indecisive and might make poor decisions at critical moments, leading others to have a low opinion of you. Some individuals might find your unpredictable behavior frustrating, potentially exploiting or reprimanding you. In terms of your career, despite having good execution skills, you may appear stingy, provoking others. People around you are unlikely to help advance your career and may take advantage of you during key moments.
Harshness Index: 60 Points
You tend to overthink and are quite reserved, making it difficult to form friendships or get close to strangers. In relationships, your extreme rationality may lead others to perceive you as lacking romance and sincerity. This perception can cause the opposite sex to feel disdainful and critical, often preventing them from investing genuine feelings in you. In the professional realm, you like to stand out and may inadvertently put others, especially competitors, in difficult positions. Consequently, others might view you as cold-hearted, resulting in harsh treatment.
Harshness Index: 30 Points
You generally do not focus on trivial matters or cause offense to others, making you appear as a level-headed individual. In relationships, you are not overly demanding, which allows you to maintain a positive impression even after breakups. It is unlikely for others to make things difficult for you. In your career, you are competent, but your social skills might not be the smoothest; nonetheless, you are not disliked. People around you tend to be tolerant and will not scheme against you or exploit you during crucial times.
Harshness Index: 10 Points
You are an honest, kind-hearted person who enjoys helping others. People view you as sincere and are unlikely to create difficulties for you. Even if you err, they will choose to forgive rather than hold grudges. While your abilities in the workplace may be average, you have many benefactors. After age 30, your career is likely to thrive with others' support. Your financial prospects are promising, as many around you act as mentors and friends who will be supportive, not harsh. You are quite fortunate.