Find Out Who You Can Trust 100%
When you’re having hot pot with friends, don’t just focus on the food—take a moment to notice how everyone eats. Their table habits can tell you a lot about how trustworthy they are.
A: This person often has a big-brother/big-sister vibe, and you can go to them for advice on all kinds of things. Still, avoid sharing anything overly personal or self-serving. They’ve likely seen a lot and can be hard to read, and when interests conflict, you might be led astray without even realizing it.
B: This person is straightforward and honest—they don’t play mind games. When you’ve got a tough problem, they’re a reliable helper. That said, they’re not great at keeping secrets. If there’s something you truly want to keep private, don’t tell them, or it could be common knowledge by tomorrow.
C: This person can be a bit high-strung and is sensitive to certain people, situations, or topics. Sometimes they can read you without you saying a word. When you confide in them, you can feel safe: they’re great listeners and they keep what you share to themselves, which makes them very trustworthy.
D: This person is consistently cautious and careful, even when gossiping. If they learn something you’d prefer to keep private, you don’t need to worry, because they’re like a “one-way vault for gossip.” They’re also somewhat forgetful, which often makes them a dead end for secrets.