Is He or She Really Into You?
In situations where you're uncertain if someone reciprocates your feelings, it's common to maintain a secret or undefined crush on them. While this can protect the current relationship, since not having something means you can't lose it, it also leaves you in the dark about the other person's true feelings. If you're curious, let's take this test together to find out if they really like you.
1. Do you have ambiguous relationships with multiple people?
2. Do you tend to attract people of the opposite sex?
3. Do you check social media like Weibo or WeChat every day?
4. Are you certain about the qualities you want in a partner?
5. Have you recently experienced a breakup?
6. Do you think time can reveal a person's true nature?
7. Are you bothered when someone you like has friends of the opposite sex?
8. Do you have a strong sense of responsibility?
9. Do you truly want to be with your partner?
10. Do you actively pursue the person you like?
11. Do you often dream about the person you like?
12. Does the person you're interested in remember your birthday?
A: They don't really like you
It seems that the person you fancy doesn't genuinely have feelings for you. You might find yourself easily infatuated and longing for a deeper relationship, hoping it might grow. Unfortunately, they don't share these feelings and may even be deliberately avoiding becoming closer. While you might find it hard to express your emotions, if they truly liked you, they would make an effort to reach out.
B: Why stay in ambiguity?
The person you're uncertain about might genuinely like you but, for various reasons, can't be with you. They could feel you're not the right match or be facing external pressures or other issues. Regardless, they maintain an ambiguous relationship with you but struggle to fully commit.
C: They have a secret crush on you
It seems they have had a secret crush on you for some time but are too shy or afraid of rejection to express it. This suggests they may be a reserved individual. If you're interested in them, consider making the first move and sharing your feelings.
D: They will be with you
It looks like they will indeed end up with you, but right now, your mutual understanding is limited. To mask their true emotions, they might be assessing how much you value them. Neither of you has taken the first step to confess your feelings, but the chances of you two being together are high.