How to Find a Good Man
For many women, sweet romance is something to yearn for. If you’re still single, there’s likely a reason. Sometimes it’s not that there aren’t men around, but that they don’t meet your standards; or maybe you’re shy, don’t know how to express yourself, and end up avoiding the situation. How can you break out of this pattern and find a good man who meets your expectations? If you’re interested, take this psychological test and see if the answers resonate with you.
1. Are you sensitive to the cold in winter?
2. Do you prefer listening to female or male singers?
3. Have you been very busy lately?
4. Can you play billiards?
5. It’s your birthday, and someone gives you a box with a cake inside. What color is the cake?
6. Do you enjoy drinking coffee you brew yourself?
7. Has anyone ever told you that you’re “selfish”?
8. If two people in a relationship break up, do you think they can still be friends?
9. Has anyone ever told you that you have “feminine charm”?
10. Do you like eating steak?
11. If a stranger smiles at you, what do you think?
12. When you’re having a candlelit dinner with your loved one, what would you drink?
13. Would you ever lie to someone you love for any reason?
14. Do you like horseback riding?
15. Which cartoon character do you like the most?
A. You may feel insecure about your looks and could benefit from focusing on self-presentation. As the saying goes, “clothes make the person.” If you put a little more thought into style and dress in ways that make you feel great, you’ll shine and build confidence. Do more of what you’re good at and choose outfits that highlight your strengths—you won’t have to worry about attracting a good man.
B. You may lack a sense of security and approach others with suspicion, which can push even the best men away. Try lowering your guard a bit and giving yourself more room to be open and at ease with people. That will create a more harmonious vibe around you, and good men will naturally be drawn to you.
C. Your social circle may be too small, limiting your chances to meet new people. Try to engage with a wider world and expand your interactions. As you meet more people, you’ll find that meeting a good man isn’t that hard. The key is stepping out of your small circle and taking that brave first step.
D. You may be too passive in love, always hoping others will make the first move. Don’t keep avoiding it—if you like someone, be brave and say so. That’s how you create the chance for happiness. Go ahead and share your feelings; whatever the outcome, only expressed love has a chance to be returned.
E. You may be overly focused on outcomes. Try to relax and trust that you’re lovable. Don’t worry too much about what others think. Simply show your charm in a natural way, and you’ll naturally attract good men.
F. You might be a bit too fixated on love. Instead of rushing it, let things unfold naturally. If two people aren’t a match, effort alone won’t change it. True love is mutual attraction and understanding. Sometimes the best move is to ease up and reset your mindset. When you confidently show your charm, good men will appear with a smile.
G. You may be a bit naive, which can give the wrong men an opening. Try not to be stubborn—listen to your parents and friends, accept their kind help, and focus on maturing quickly. That’s the priority right now.