How Honest Are You with Your Partner?
Test Question: One day, you’re walking alone down the street when a stranger approaches and asks you to break a 100-yuan bill. What would you do?
A:
B:
C:
D:
A: First, check if you have enough change
Choosing this option suggests you’re not very open with your partner. You believe that even in a close relationship, some things are better kept private, since sharing them might create unnecessary pressure and could even affect the relationship. As a result, you tend to withhold things you feel your partner doesn’t need to know.
B: Ignore them
Choosing this option suggests your honesty with your partner is conditional. You share certain things only when your partner uses the relationship as leverage—for example, saying, “If you don’t tell me the truth, I’ll break up with you!” In those situations, you feel compelled to disclose some information.
C: Ask them to go to a store to make change
Choosing this option indicates you’re not very forthcoming with your partner. There are many things you wouldn’t tell them; if you feel they don’t need to know, you’ll keep it to yourself. You’ll only come clean when they have enough evidence that you’re withholding information; otherwise, you’ll try to keep it hidden.
D: Gladly make change for them
Choosing this option shows you’re very open with your partner. You believe that since you’re together, you should be honest with each other and keep everything out in the open. There should be no secrets between you, as that’s the only way to maintain a strong relationship.