Who’s Your Toughest Rival?

2. Do you let work get in the way of your relationship?

No matter how busy or tired I am, my partner comes first — 1 point

Sometimes I’m really swamped and may prioritize work — 3 points

A man should establish his career before thinking about family — 5 points

3. What kind of gift do you usually give your partner on Valentine’s Day?

A gift that surprises and delights them — 1 point

A meaningful gift that fits my budget — 3 points

Flowers and a card—the thought counts — 5 points

4. When your partner makes a mistake, what do you usually do?

I have high standards, so I get very angry and blame them — 1 point

If they’re being unreasonable, I can’t stand it — 3 points

I listen to their side first — 5 points

5. Do you like taking photos?

Yes, I’m always up for taking pictures — 1 point

It’s fine, but I’m not very into taking photos with people I don’t know well — 3 points

I’m not that enthusiastic; I just go with the flow — 5 points

6. Do you like exercising?

I love it, and I’m good at most sports — 1 point

I generally like it, but I’m only good at one or two — 3 points

I prefer more low-key, low-impact activities — 5 points

7. Which of these three cakes do you prefer?

Ice cream cake — 1 point

Blueberry fruit cake — 3 points

Black Forest chocolate cake — 5 points

8. Which of these adrenaline-pumping activities would you most like to try?

Whitewater rafting in the most dangerous rapids — 1 point

Bungee jumping off a cliff — 3 points

Climbing to the summit of Xiyue (Mount Hua) within 24 hours — 5 points

Let’s see how your chances against your rival stack up!

8–16 points: Xiang Yu vs. Guan Yu

You excel in your own arena and, like Xiang Yu, you cherish your partner, so rivals rarely worry you. Still, no one is immune to second thoughts. If someone as capable and upright as Guan Yu—very different from you—comes along, you can’t be sure your partner won’t reconsider.

17–24 points: Zhang Fei vs. Yue Fei

You’re straightforward and bold—no beating around the bush—and you’re not great at sweet talk, which makes it hard for you to read a woman’s sensitive, nuanced feelings. So when a gentle, considerate Yue Fei appears, anger aside, you may have to watch your partner walk away.

25–32 points: Ma Chao vs. Ban Chao

Love matters, but in today’s world, without financial security, everything else is up in the air. People want happiness after marriage, and stability is essential—finances included. So when a Ma Chao—still bouncing between mentors and struggling in his career—meets a polished, successful Ban Chao who’s made his mark abroad, there’s really no comparison.

32–40 points: Xue Pinggui vs. Wu Sangui

Don’t write off Wu Sangui as merely a traitor—legend says he did it for love. In the 21st century, there aren’t many Wang Baochuans willing to wait more than a decade. If you neglect your partner and a rival like Wu Sangui—willing to do anything for love—shows up, even a loyal warrior like Xue Pinggui may have to raise the white flag.