Are You Overly Dependent?
Test Question: When you’re riding as a passenger on someone else’s motorcycle, where do you usually put your hands?
A:
B:
C:
D:
A: Grab the rear grab bar
If you chose this option, you’re very self-reliant, level-headed, and have excellent judgment. You rarely ask for help and usually handle things on your own—and you tend to do it well. Your calm demeanor naturally draws attention.
B: Hold the rider’s waist
If you chose this option, you may appear independent on the surface, but deep down you’re sensitive and easily hurt. You’ve long wanted someone to lean on, but life hasn’t made that easy, so you’ve reluctantly learned to stand on your own and not rely on anyone. Still, you often feel lonely because you haven’t found a dependable support system.
C: Rest your hands on your own knees
If you chose this option, you’re very independent and dislike both relying on others and having others lean too heavily on you. Most of the time you prefer to go it alone and avoid deep attachments. You’re talented with a unique perspective, but you can be impatient. Although people are willing to engage with you, it’s hard for you to find close friends.
D: Wrap your arms tightly around the rider
If you chose this option, you tend to be quite dependent, often preferring to stay in others’ shadow and let them take the lead. You’re very reluctant to take on responsibility, and being required to handle things on your own makes you feel anxious.