Which Men Are More Likely to Have Extramarital Affairs According to BaZi?

In today's world, many women experience deep emotional pain because of their husbands' infidelities. Some women choose to endure this pain to preserve their families, while others take drastic measures, ending their marriages and sometimes facing severe consequences, like imprisonment. Below are a few types of men who are more prone to having affairs, and women should be aware of these traits:

1. Men with Peach Blossom in Their BaZi Chart

Men with Peach Blossom in their BaZi chart tend to be naturally flirtatious and attracted to beautiful women, often becoming the object of pursuit by others.

2. Mixed Wealth in BaZi Chart

In BaZi, "Partial Wealth" for men symbolizes lovers and women shared among many. If a man's BaZi chart prominently features Partial Wealth, it indicates he may have numerous romantic involvements and extramarital affairs.

3. Strong Food and Injury Stars in BaZi Chart

The Food and Injury star signifies indulgence. A strong presence of this star in a man's BaZi chart suggests he enjoys luxury, entertainment, and sexual pleasures, making it challenging for him to stay committed.

[Letter] Dear Teacher Tao, I hope you're doing well! A friend of mine, who was very pleased with your advice about her marriage, strongly recommended you to me as I'm facing my own marital issues. My husband and I married in 2010 and had a child in 2011. After I gave birth, he began cheating frequently. For example, when our child had a high fever late at night, he was out with his mistress enjoying himself at a tourist spot... This is just one instance among many. From 2011 to 2015, he has been involved with no fewer than five women. I've forgiven him all these years because of our dear child; I don't want him to be absent from our child's life. Furthermore, I've been the one financially supporting his business since before we married, yet he's never turned a profit and continuously asks me for money. I have exhausted my savings, my parents' savings, and even borrowed from relatives to support his business, taking drastic steps like mortgaging our pre-marital home and taking out loans, even high-interest ones. Yet, he treats me this way. I don’t understand where I went wrong. This year, he's only been home fewer than five times in over six months, and he’s mostly unreachable. Teacher, is he involved with someone else again? Given my failed marriage and the financial burdens he's caused, what does my future hold? His BaZi is:

Qian Zao: Wu Wu, Bing Chen, Gui Mao, Jia Yin (Ri Kong Chen, Si)

(From age 9) Da Yun: Ding Si, Wu Wu, Ji Wei, Geng Shen, Xin You, Ren Xu, Gui Hai, Jia Zi

[Astrologer Teacher Xiao Tao's Response]: The reasons your husband seems so indifferent to your existence include: 1. His main wealth is apparent, while his partial wealth is hidden within the year branch, showing a mix of partial and main wealth. This implies that although he values family, he also has affairs; 2. Both the year and hour branches in his BaZi chart are Peach Blossom stars, indicating that he is quite flirtatious; 3. The Earth branches of Yin, Mao, and Chen suggest he is very social, naturally attracting many attractive women; 4. The combination of these Earth branches forms Wood, which represents the Food and Injury star for him. This implies he is emotional, lacks self-control, and possesses a strong sexual desire, driving him further into infidelity. In 2011, the presence of Mao and the year branch’s partial wealth led to his affairs. In 2012, the addition of Chen Earth to the BaZi chart’s combination activated the main wealth, making him consider divorce. From 2013 to 2015, hidden relationships in the Earth branches led to continuous infidelity.

In the years following 2016, he will enter the Geng Shen major period, which may aid in restraining and controlling his infidelity. However, since he naturally seeks pleasure, completely eliminating romantic entanglements will be quite challenging. Should you choose endurance and compromise, you might eventually see him return; if you decide to leave, you can focus on yourself and live a vibrant life.