LILKILLER: When Having Many Friends Isn't Always a Good Thing for These Zodiac Signs

In life, two unavoidable aspects are always present: "basic necessities" and "emotions." The former is straightforward and tangible, while the latter is complex, encompassing all feelings generated in the heart towards others, like "love, friendship, and familial bonds." Emotions can bring warmth but also cause entanglements; they can be a source of motivation or sorrow. Consequently, many people share a love-hate relationship with the concept of "emotions."

Countless times, individuals declare in desperation, "I'll never believe in love again, nor will I make new friends," only to find themselves filled with longing and anticipation a few days later. In my recent conversations with readers, most discussions revolved around the topic of "emotions."

Take, for example, a reader who shared: "I have a very close best friend with whom I share everything. However, recently, the guy she likes has taken an interest in me. She has been screenshotting our conversations and showing them to others, which hurts me deeply. Now, even at night, I fear she might betray me again. Why is she doing this?"

I responded, "Often, we make friends not just because we get along, but also because we need companionship to alleviate loneliness. Therefore, we require trust from others while also being willing to trust them. However, many people today feel a lack of 'presence' and resort to using others' 'little secrets' to boost their self-confidence and draw attention. This is when such issues arise."

Instead of harboring hurt and conflict, it's better to have an open conversation with her to directly address the issue. Moving forward, choose friends wisely and avoid getting too close to those vastly different from you in important aspects. This way, you'll feel less burdened, and the problems you mentioned are less likely to occur.

Many of us have experienced "betrayal, backstabbing, and sabotage" from friends, leading to skepticism about the saying "the more friends, the more paths," making it seem more like "the more friends, the fewer paths." This might be due to a lack of understanding of "emotions" or what it means to be a "friend."

Today, let's delve into "emotions." The character for "emotion" includes a "heart" component, representing that the foundation of all feelings is the "heart." But what does the "qing" (青) on the other side signify?

"Green youth, everlasting vitality, green mountains and clear waters, childhood sweethearts"—these phrases show that "qing" symbolizes "hope and the beauty of spring." It also stands for "spring," specifically referring to the months of the "Tiger and Rabbit." In terms of time, it signifies the early morning hours from "3 AM to 7 AM" (the Tiger and Rabbit hours), when the sun begins to rise.

This indicates that "emotions" should inherently be filled with "positive energy," much like the "rising sun," which brings feelings of "warmth, gentleness, and care." Therefore, whether making friends or falling in love, choose people who inspire these feelings in you.

Especially regarding friendship, it's crucial to choose the right people. Friendship should focus on quality, not quantity. A person's heart can only hold so many people. However, since "qing" represents the months of "Tiger and Rabbit," those born during these months are likely more emotionally sensitive. Let's now discuss zodiac signs prone to "crossing friendships," helping everyone understand why sometimes the things you share with others can be easily disclosed or even mocked by them.

Aries: Too Trusting and Self-Assured

For Aries, the mindset is: if you fall, just get back up; if you cry, just wipe your tears. This openness leads them to have a low "defense" level when interacting with others. As naturally friendly individuals, they often become emotionally invested when conversations become enthusiastic.

However, this "fast-paced" familiarity is often seen as "immature and unstable." Those with more life experience understand that "human hearts can be treacherous," so they may not easily trust such "aimless" enthusiasm. This results in situations where an Aries thinks they have a strong connection, while the other person might see them as a "fool" and take their sincerity lightly. Aries may assume everything is linked to them, wanting to share their best with others, only to face indifference or mockery, with their actions treated as entertainment.

Initially, Aries' self-assuredness leads to self-hypnosis, convincing themselves of others' respect. However, the eventual disappointment upon discovering the truth can be overwhelming.

In simpler terms, it can feel like: "I offered my heart to you, and it wasn't appreciated." So, as a seasoned Aries, my advice to all Aries readers is: "You don't need an excess of friends. Being overly distracted doesn't suit the persistent nature of Aries."

Instead, focus on the right people. While I can't guarantee a great return, at least you'll avoid feeling like you're "climbing mountains for someone" only to get rejected!"

Pisces: Easily Moved, Finds Standing Firm Difficult, More Prone to Hurt

Despite their outward strength, Pisces are easily touched at heart. Born in "early spring," they are particularly sensitive to sounds, often being drawn to someone simply because of their "gentle" voice. This makes Pisces quick to befriend those with the ability to "speak well" and easily fall in love.

Their trusting nature makes them more susceptible to "betrayal and deception." Moreover, in social circles, individuals with a firm stance are generally valued, while "indecisiveness" often causes people to be overlooked.

Thus, Pisces in large groups may find themselves more passive and subject to gossip. Unlike Aries, Pisces lack the decisiveness to leave when hurt, often forcing themselves to adapt, resulting in "more friends" but also becoming "targets of criticism."

Pisces friends reading this should reflect: does your social circle provide "warmth, gentleness, and acceptance"? If not, your relationships may not be genuine.

What you call "friends" might be increasing "conflicts and internal struggles," with you frequently hearing others gossip about you. Feeling frustrated, consider "streamlining your social circle and reducing the number of friends."

Reflecting on our experiences, we should assess whether our "friends" are "true friends." Can we be sincere and open-hearted with them? If you find yourself needing to disguise yourself or meet conditions to be someone's "friend," why go through that?

Life should be "simple and comfortable." While having more friends might ease your path, if the path isn't what you desire, and you can't genuinely express "joy and happiness," then reconsider whether to follow that path and choose between "friends" and "yourself."

In conclusion, I hope everyone can streamline their social circles and only keep friends who truly resonate with them!