LILKILLER: Avoid the "Silent Treatment" and "Grudges" — Choose These Zodiac Signs for Your Next Lover!

In relationships, what do we fear the most? Many readers who are currently dating would likely say, “Arguments. When we start fighting, we often say harsh and hurtful things that can damage each other's feelings. It also eats up valuable time that we could spend on our regular work and life!”

However, married readers might respond with, “Emotional coldness; that's the most terrifying. When the other person is angry and ignores you for a long time, it becomes unbearable. They won't listen to what you have to say, nor cooperate in the relationship, leading to growing frustration and irritation. You might even feel suffocated, and in such a repressive environment, it can lead to feeling tangled and sleepless.”

So, for those dating, you might think that issues of “two people” getting along aren't significant. Because in a “married” situation, the “emotional state” built up over time is the real issue. This aligns with the common wisdom from those who've been there.

Although many introverted individuals might not mind “emotional coldness,” for most, it's a critical wound in a relationship. How can we prevent it? The author tells you: Changing a person is incredibly difficult, so we should choose the right person during the “dating phase.”

If you're afraid that no one will listen to you or if you fear “emotional coldness,” you should choose someone who “doesn’t hold grudges and is willing to express themselves.” As the author specializes in astrology, let’s discuss which zodiac signs are least likely to hold grudges and are less prone to “emotional coldness” in relationships!

Libra: The Natural Peacemaker

Typically, astrology articles describe the planet “Venus” as representing the type of personality one likes or their romantic preferences. However, from the author's perspective, “Venus” represents a desire for a beautiful exterior, a wish for others to see a graceful self; Libras prefer to exist in a harmonious environment. Therefore, Libras, ruled by “Venus,” dislike having conflicts exposed to others and fear losing face.

For this reason, many of the author’s articles often depict Libras as the quintessential “people-pleasers.” Their lives revolve around “how others perceive them”; they thrive on showing off and sharing, and their happiness often depends on “the happiness of others.” This makes them willing to make “sacrifices” to sustain peace around them.

So, if you're close to a Libra, you'll rarely witness them “arguing as a couple.” This is because, in many situations, when Libras feel “embarrassed,” they prefer to close the door and resolve issues privately at home. Most Libras aim to avoid “nagging” others and also fear being “nagged,” especially in romantic relationships, where they tend to think deeply.

For example: After an argument, will others notice it the next day? Will the hurtful words they used injure their partner? Did they act too impulsively and need to apologize? Driven by such thoughts, even the angriest Libra often chooses to apologize or clarify after cooling down.

Furthermore, since Libras are born during the “Mid-Autumn” season, their prominent “autumn sign” personality dislikes letting problems linger overnight. This further lessens the likelihood of them displaying “emotional coldness” or bottling things up. Therefore, if you dislike partners being “emotionally cold and indifferent,” a Libra is an excellent choice.

However, every strength comes with a weakness. The downside for a Libra is that they care too much about others’ opinions and are often unwilling to compromise. If you choose them, you must be prepared to endure this and often align with their need for validation to avoid embarrassing them. But remember, no one is perfect; a 60% compatibility in personality is already quite “ideal.” Thus, if you value “face” and dislike “emotional coldness,” a Libra is a great partner choice.

Aries: “Holding Grudges” is Too Exhausting

Aries is ruled by “Mars,” a planet known for its swift arrivals and departures. As such, their temper is similar: they need to express their feelings when bothered, but once they do, it's over. Essentially, everything about Aries is characterized by being fleeting.

The author often describes Aries as “straightforward and forgiving”: many fast-talking individuals have fewer “ulterior motives,” as their speech rate surpasses their brain's processing speed, indicating a more “direct” personality.

Moreover, those who get angry quickly often have a big heart: they don't hold grudges against anyone, which leads to simpler thoughts and more “genuine” attitudes towards others than being goal-oriented.

In summary, these traits combine to create a “childlike” character. They won’t dwell on minor “misunderstandings” or cling to negative feelings due to a few harsh words. Consequently, they are unlikely to use “emotional coldness” to resolve issues or keep emotions bottled up instead of being direct.

This is why it's often said that those with fiery tempers tend to be more caring towards their “partners.” These traits help identify who might engage in “emotional coldness.” In other words, it’s not only Aries; anyone displaying these characteristics—such as speaking quickly and being straightforward—is likely to have low emotional coldness after marriage.

However, every gain comes with a loss. If you seek someone “mature, composed,” who pays attention to “proper attire” and knows how to communicate, Aries might not be the best fit. But if you desire a life that is “simple, straightforward, and free from emotional coldness,” Aries is the best choice.

Leo: “Never Back Down” So Why Sweat the Small Stuff?

“The Sun” symbolizes “positive thinking,” so those ruled by it, like Leos, may be argumentative but prefer to confront issues openly rather than keep things hidden or bottled up. At this point, many readers might say, “My Leo girlfriend isn't like that; she likes to sulk.”

True, “not liking” doesn’t mean they won’t. A Leo, who values their pride, might hold onto their anger if lacking an “out,” but they won't use this to make you “submit”; instead, they're waiting for you to provide them with an “out” to continue “engaging” with you. Thus, calling it “cold violence” is misleading; it's more like “warm violence.”

Moreover, Leos aren't good at holding back; if you give them the silent treatment for two days, they'll find various excuses to come back and “clear things up.” Leos often feel like the “sun” in a relationship, believing you can't live without them, which gives them a strong sense of possessiveness. Hence, once they stop talking, the emotional turmoil they endure exceeds yours. So, how could they possibly carry out “emotional coldness” to the end?

However, a Leo’s “pride” is paramount. Thus, when dating and living with a Leo, you must protect their “face.” Even if they're reluctant to let you go, once you cross that “bottom line,” they will reconsider. The most suitable partner for a Leo is someone who is sensitive and emotional. The best match for a Leo is someone with a “calm personality who enjoys sharing.”

These are the types that the author believes are least likely to “hold grudges or engage in emotional coldness.” I hope this article helps more people understand that a relationship requires “warmth” rather than proving one's “importance” through “I’ll ignore you to show you how painful it is!”