How to Support and Guide a Non-Conforming Child

"My name is Yang Yongyang, and I was born in the Year of the Wolf." This charming self-introduction by Yang Yongyang on "Happy Camp" has captivated countless viewers. Many netizens have transitioned from casual observers to fans of this shy little boy who first appeared in the early episodes of "Where Are We Going, Dad? 2." However, his subsequent performances surprised everyone. For instance, he expressed his displeasure at Fei Man's playful head-pushing with the unexpected phrase "Don't mess with me," which even startled adults. Then, during a puppy race, he cried and refused to participate after finishing last. His often "downcast" demeanor on the show led the subtitle team to label him as a "low-pressure child," adding a hint of negativity to the generally well-behaved and cute image of the boy in the audience's minds. Let's delve deeper into understanding Yang Yongyang, a little boy with a typically Scorpio personality, presented to you by "Technology Ziwei Astrology Network."

Scorpio Strengths—Astute and Perceptive

Born on November 6, 2009, both the Sun and Mercury are in Scorpio for Yang Yongyang, which amplifies his Scorpio traits significantly. Mercury represents personal thoughts, intellect, and communication, which greatly influence one's external behavior. Therefore, understanding a child's personality requires considering their Mercury sign. In cases like Yang Yongyang's, where both the Sun and Mercury are in the same sign, attention must be paid to the potential for these traits to become overly pronounced and lead to extremes.

The two most prominent traits of Mercury in Scorpio—astuteness and keen observation—are vividly displayed in Yang Yongyang. During the "Market Shopping" task, he was constantly worried about forgetting his father's instructions regarding clothing sizes, repeatedly mumbling "160, 80, 160, 80..." No matter who spoke to him, he would return to his mantra without pause. Upon arriving at the market, not only did he find the clothes and pants his father needed, but he also bargained with the vendor, reducing the price of a shirt from 45 yuan to 35 yuan without hesitation. Ultimately, Yang Yongyang excelled in completing the task, showcasing one of the best performances among all the children.

In the basketball game in New Leaf Village, Yang Yongyang noticed something other children overlooked. He pointed out that Wu Zhenyu committed a foul by shooting with his left hand, stating that the "rule" should be to use the right hand. Many thought Yang Yongyang was being picky or unable to lose gracefully, but in a situation where most people shoot with their right hand, children might assume this is the standard rule, unaware that some prefer to use their left hand. Yang Yongyang recognized that Wu Zhenyu was different but still managed to score, leading him to believe it was a foul, highlighting his strong observational skills.

Scorpio Weaknesses—Low-Pressure Children

Of course, every zodiac sign has its weaknesses, and the downsides of Mercury in Scorpio should not be underestimated. The personality flaws exhibited by Yang Yongyang have become a hot topic among viewers, earning him the label of a "low-pressure child."

From the very first episode, when his father merely posed a hypothetical question, Yang Yongyang's face displayed clear anger, with his lips pouting and arms crossed. When his father continued to tease him, he even reached out to hit him. Many might find it hard to imagine a child exhibiting such a temper, but this is characteristic of Mercury in Scorpio—extreme personality, intense emotions, and a lack of tolerance, along with difficulties in communication.

At the start of the show, Yang Yongyang was hesitant to interact with strangers, sitting quietly beside his father, holding back tears and staring at the ground. This wasn't shyness from being unfamiliar with new friends, but rather a reflection of his personality, making it difficult for him to engage with those around him. In a later episode set in a treehouse, while other children were playing together, Yang Yongyang isolated himself in the bedroom, remaining silent until Fei Man came to find him. By this point, he was quite familiar with everyone. At home, his grandparents and parents would always engage him in conversation, but when faced with peers outside, if they did not approach him, he would likely avoid the crowd and watch from a corner. During a task of picking mulberries, he was with Fei Man and Joe, who actively asked locals for tools. Although Yang Yongyang needed them too, he merely watched silently, unwilling to step forward and speak up. In the end, he only added unnecessary burdens and worries for himself.

Educational Approaches for Low-Pressure Children

Ultimately, a child's personality development is heavily influenced by parental guidance, and understanding the child's astrological profile is essential for effective teaching. Many children with Mercury in Scorpio, like Yang Yongyang, display unique traits in their daily lives. If parents only focus on their child's strengths without actively addressing their weaknesses, they risk raising a "low-pressure child." These children tend to be reclusive in social settings, often staying alone in corners, and may exhibit traits like being petty, uncommunicative, and overly fixated on issues. They don't easily provoke others, but when their pent-up frustrations explode, they can display intense aggression.

When these children need to adapt to group living, such as entering kindergarten or school, they may struggle to adjust to school life and find it difficult to make friends. Interactions with peers often lead to conflicts or withdrawal, resulting in social isolation. Gradually, they may develop a reclusive, introverted, timid, and reserved personality, lacking the innocent liveliness typical of other children. On the other hand, they may also become fixated on issues, potentially developing aggressive tendencies. So how can parents educate children with Mercury in Scorpio? Here are some suggestions:

• As parents, it's essential to set a good example for your child, creating a positive influence. Regularly taking your child out and interacting with family and friends will help them become accustomed to social situations, reducing their fear and shyness in public.
• Allocate time each day for parent-child communication. This can involve parents consciously engaging the child in debates on specific topics, encouraging them to express their opinions, or playing games together to foster their interest in interaction.
• Parents should intentionally cultivate their child's ability to cooperate. Assign tasks that are challenging to complete alone, encouraging the child to collaborate with others, thus increasing their opportunities for social interaction. Help them understand that individual efforts may be limited, but working together makes tasks easier.
• Teach your child how to make friends. In their interactions with peers, parents should instill correct social principles, such as being strict with oneself while being lenient with others, fostering mutual trust and respect, and cultivating a sense of equality and unity in communication. Parents must promptly correct any negative behaviors exhibited by the child, such as causing trouble, being unreasonable, or bullying peers.

Educating a child is not a one-time effort. When addressing the weaknesses in a child's personality, parents need to approach with sufficient understanding and tolerance. When children see their parents' efforts, they will surely reciprocate in kind.